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mate who tried to hang hislef :(
Replies: 7Last Post July 20 10:23pm by omgidontno
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my friend told me that our other mate tried to comit suicide last week. im not suposed to know but how can i let him know that im here for him and that he means SO much to me!!!  

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BananaPancake


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I'm so sorry.
Just call him and let him know if he ever wants to talk you're there for him, and you want to help him through whatever he is going through.


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Just tell him.

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You pretty much have to be there for him . .  well obviously . . It will be good to spend more time with the guy, talk to him, and hopefully to be able too encourage him. Nothing is of more value to a person than another sacrificing time for him or her to be honest.

Be wary though, suicide attempts normalyl spell out a very deep root and can be extremely difficult to handle especially when you are trying to help such a person. Even kind words can be easily misinterpreted, and as such you ahve to be very very sensitive towards them. Is you're not very close to him, its a risk, but love from the heart usually never fails.

Be there for him, and let him know that you are with him regardless of what happens. Let him know that he means SO much to you.

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Just talk to him, tell him how you feel

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That's a difficult situation, maybe it would be best to respect the fact that he might not want you to know about it - but you can still show him you're there for him by spending time with him and letting him know you enjoy his company.

Perhaps you could just say you heard he was feeling pretty down, and then tell him how much you care - without mentioning his suicide attempt. He probably doesn't want to talk about that bit in great detail.

*hug*

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