i don't care if other people want to have sex before marriage. i think waiting until they're sure it's a good decision is beneficial, but i don't judge people based on it.

also, marriage isn't the supreme starting point because they'll get divorced anyways.

Post edited at 9:48 am on July 23, 2008 by hithere

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If you are in love then it's fine. What if you never had sex before you got married then on your wedding day you get it on and you find out he's bad at sex? Well, you're screwed for life.

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i agree with this. if sex means anything to you or your partner, you both will be screwed for life if you are not sexually compatible. if it doesn't matter to you, kudos to you. i personally don't think anyone should have sex until they are old enough to realize the consequences and deal with them if they choose not to use protection; it doesn't matter if they are 15 years old or 50.

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you wouldn't buy a pair of shoes without trying them on first.
you wouldn't buy a car without taking it for a test drive.

might as well find out if the person you are planning to spend the rest of your sex life with is any good first.

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I just think that people should wait until they are truly ready, and have found the right person to have sex with.