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Moms and Relationships with Older Men
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Replies: 18Last Post July 23 8:50am by lingerie gurl
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I started talking to an older 20 year old guy through a friend.  I am sixteen.... We started really liking each other so we decided to meet.  My Mom was very reluctant but she finally said that he could come to OUR house one Saturday evening or something.  That wasn't soon enough for me so I asked this boy over to a friends to meet him, we really hit it off and he left the next morning.  Nothing bad.  Anyways, that was Thursday... by Monday we had already missed each other and wanted to see each other Tuesday night at another one of my friends, when "God told my Mom to read my text messages" and she found out about it.  She threatened him and no matter how bad I feel about it, she wont let me talk to him or anything.  I really want my Mom to accept this man and let him in my life, he means a lot to me.  What can I do?

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desireelovesyouu


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Lol i hate your mom...but i suppose..The guy i like is almost 24..or he already is..

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cherrys77


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Well maybe you should start by Not sneaking around..
when she's not angry sit her down and explain it to her. don't accuse her of Anything. just explain how you feel and such.

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Sheebobee


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your mom shouldnt have read your text messages
ha
i delete mine right after i get them or send them if its something i dont want my parents to read

screw your mom
see him anyways

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Favole


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well you should have just waited if your mom gave in ?
if she isn't mad talk to her

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Oh yeah I'd hit that :) I'd hit that real hard!...
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If you did anything sexual it would be statutory rape so I think he may be to old for you.  You didn't obey what your Mom told you and that's why she doesn't want you to see him at all.  You should have waited for when your Mom allowed you to see him.

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Okay.... I am not retarded, it happened, I'm asking what do I do now?

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meehduh


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tell your mom she shouldnt of read ur text messages. not just that but why sneak around cause now your mom is kinda never gonna wanna trust you

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lingerie gurl


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You lost her trust and so did this man. How dare a 20 year old man spend time with a sixteen year old without her parent's blessings! And you? You are so ungrateful, and impatient. Your mom said she was willing to let him meet you even though she didn't trust your judgement.  
You let your mom down.
She wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt and you abused that! You lied to her and manipulated her. I don't for one second think your mom is wrong not to let you see this guy at all. You lied, You manipulated, and worst of all you abused her trust. She has the right to forbid you from seeing this man and calling the police.

I truly hope she takes the responsible route and files a restraining order on your behalf.

Post edited at 8:43 am on July 23, 2008 by lingerie gurl

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moms are always over protective

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paperskyx


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Your mom is psychotic freak...And there's really nothing wrong with going out with a guy four years older than you. My parents are 11 years apart.

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yamilet


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just show her how u feel about that guy and just talk to her about it

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darkpheonix95


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i have parents like that too mom always mentions god for everything but anyways it was wrong for her to read your messages and its not wrong for her to not like this guy look at the age difference your mom could easily call the police and say it was rape because youre not the legal age or w.e but i did the same.. i was 16 he was 21 and we went out on the low.. you should do that and if the relationship lasts until youre 18 even better your mom cant say anything

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lingerie gurl


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Quote: from darkpheonix95 at 8:43 am on July 23, 2008

i have parents like that too mom always mentions god for everything but anyways it was wrong for her to read your messages and its not wrong for her to not like this guy look at the age difference your mom could easily call the police and say it was rape because youre not the legal age or w.e but i did the same.. i was 16 he was 21 and we went out on the low.. you should do that and if the relationship lasts until youre 18 even better your mom cant say anything

If her mom pays her cell phone bill, she has a right to read her daughter's text messages.

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haley13


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You should have just waited

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