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Asked out random girl in library - Was I too aggressive?
Replies: 19Last Post July 27, 2008 2:47pm by nik1
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Just 40 minutes ago I was in the library cramming for exams.  I'm taking summer classes at my college and there was this girl 4 tables across staring at me.  So I walked over to her and said this:

"Hi, I saw you looking over at me in this library. I thought you might need a study break!"

We talked for 5 minutes before I exited out and said "Aight I gotta get back to cramming now.  Gonna go before my books get too jealous of us."  I did end up getting her number.

Okay, I know that girls find confidence sexy.  But sometimes I'm not sure if I'm TOO bold or gusty for my own good.  I don't want to come across as cocky or anything.  So how confident should a guy really be?  Would all girls be cool with what I just did?


9:52 am on July 23, 2008
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What the fuck kind of pick up lines are those?

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That seems fine.

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Just don't ever use stupid lines like "Was your daddy a baker by any chance? Cuz you hae such nice buns." or etc. Those are lame.

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wow you gonna get you sum pussay! lol

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good job

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not every girl. ur lucky it worked on that one! u have confidence and thats good. but some girls wont fall for lines like that. it depends on the type of girl u approach. u did well. just dont make that a habit.

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I don't think that was overly confident at all. I think it was just alright. Once, I met a guy when we were hanging out with our friends.. and he took it way too far because he was constantly asking me what I thought about his looks and telling me loads of girls go after him. T.T ugh

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i would be cool with it. i like when guys show confidence like that and actually want to have a conversation rather than staring and  callin me "hott or sexy " that is so played and annoying .

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I think you did it perfectly.  

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Quote: from cherrys77 at 9:55 am on July 23, 2008

I think you did it perfectly.  

this.

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You have alot more guts then i do.

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I dunno because that could come off as bing majorly cocky to some girls. I guess it depends on how you said it.

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That was a pretty good way to ask a girl out. As long as you don't blatantly stare or try to hit on her in a really rude way, Then it's fine. It's good that you are worrying about being too aggressive, because then you will be subconsciously limiting yourself.

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that's pretty good.
it wasn't overly cocky or anything. maybe a little corny, but corny is better than cocky. lol.
you were fine.

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