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I think every girl should have an abortion at some point in her life |
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 Replies: 87 — Last Post July 31 12:01pm by twinlketoes
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Web Resources: Teen Pregnancy Facts, Abortion Facts
USA Youth Crisis Hotline: 1-800-448-4663
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Let Love In
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Quote: from miimii at 5:29 pm on July 27, 2008
 Quote: from Let Love In at 10:32 am on July 27, 2008
Quote: from Permious at 1:08 pm on July 23, 2008
It's sort of this wonderful rite of passage. For me it was a major step in growing up, and it was just so empowering. I guess when I aborted I realised that I had control over my choices and my life. I also felt like I was kind of a woman instead of just a girl for the first time in my life, and that I was a part of this amazing tradition. Allah had blessed me, a girl in trouble, with a clean slate. I was forgiven. It really was a great experience. 
Having an abortion doesn't make you a grown woman. In fact, it proves that you're still a little girl, because you're not taking responsibility for your actions.
Yeah because keeping a baby you can't feed is taking responsibility for your actions?
No, but going through with the birth and then finding a nice adoptive family is.
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LaurettaLove
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So your saying that everyone should kill a child in order to "grow up"?
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ilovethatbiotch
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yep exactly. it made me more suicidal. not want to live. not want to make any choices for myself. make me regret. make me hurt. make me emotional. make me depressed. make me feel like my life is falling apart, but i shouldn't worry since i killed someone else and they have it a hell of a lot worse. yep everyone should go through that. you never heal from it. ever.
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miimii
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Quote: from Let Love In at 7:51 pm on July 27, 2008
Quote: from miimii at 5:29 pm on July 27, 2008
Quote: from Let Love In at 10:32 am on July 27, 2008
Quote: from Permious at 1:08 pm on July 23, 2008
It's sort of this wonderful rite of passage. For me it was a major step in growing up, and it was just so empowering. I guess when I aborted I realised that I had control over my choices and my life. I also felt like I was kind of a woman instead of just a girl for the first time in my life, and that I was a part of this amazing tradition. Allah had blessed me, a girl in trouble, with a clean slate. I was forgiven. It really was a great experience.
Having an abortion doesn't make you a grown woman. In fact, it proves that you're still a little girl, because you're not taking responsibility for your actions.
Yeah because keeping a baby you can't feed is taking responsibility for your actions?
No, but going through with the birth and then finding a nice adoptive family is.
What makes you think that?
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mama16advice
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Quote: from miimii at 2:29 pm on July 27, 2008
Quote: from Let Love In at 10:32 am on July 27, 2008
Quote: from Permious at 1:08 pm on July 23, 2008
It's sort of this wonderful rite of passage. For me it was a major step in growing up, and it was just so empowering. I guess when I aborted I realised that I had control over my choices and my life. I also felt like I was kind of a woman instead of just a girl for the first time in my life, and that I was a part of this amazing tradition. Allah had blessed me, a girl in trouble, with a clean slate. I was forgiven. It really was a great experience.
Having an abortion doesn't make you a grown woman. In fact, it proves that you're still a little girl, because you're not taking responsibility for your actions.
Yeah because keeping a baby you can't feed is taking responsibility for your actions?
But then again you made your bed by not protecting yourself...why shouldnt you lie in it. You know? Because you made the mistake of...not using a condom, or taking your pill (or whatever), or even just saying no...why make someone so innocent and didnt have power of being concieved...why make them suffer? You know? I kind of agree in terms of thats not taking responsibility for your actions. Reason being is the subject was so careless in her actions and now she runs away from the after math...you get what Im saying. I also kind of disagree with trying to push adoption on someone. Everyone isnt a nice person and everyone doesnt want to adopt...you know what Im saying. Who knows when the child will get a family or if the family chosen is the right family. In conclusion, its better to realize what can come of what you do. The realize if something should be avoided then avoid it.
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miimii
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Quote: from mama16advice at 11:09 am on July 28, 2008
Quote: from miimii at 2:29 pm on July 27, 2008
Quote: from Let Love In at 10:32 am on July 27, 2008
Quote: from Permious at 1:08 pm on July 23, 2008
It's sort of this wonderful rite of passage. For me it was a major step in growing up, and it was just so empowering. I guess when I aborted I realised that I had control over my choices and my life. I also felt like I was kind of a woman instead of just a girl for the first time in my life, and that I was a part of this amazing tradition. Allah had blessed me, a girl in trouble, with a clean slate. I was forgiven. It really was a great experience.
Having an abortion doesn't make you a grown woman. In fact, it proves that you're still a little girl, because you're not taking responsibility for your actions.
Yeah because keeping a baby you can't feed is taking responsibility for your actions?
But then again you made your bed by not protecting yourself...why shouldnt you lie in it. You know? Because you made the mistake of...not using a condom, or taking your pill (or whatever), or even just saying no...why make someone so innocent and didnt have power of being concieved...why make them suffer? You know? I kind of agree in terms of thats not taking responsibility for your actions. Reason being is the subject was so careless in her actions and now she runs away from the after math...you get what Im saying. I also kind of disagree with trying to push adoption on someone. Everyone isnt a nice person and everyone doesnt want to adopt...you know what Im saying. Who knows when the child will get a family or if the family chosen is the right family. In conclusion, its better to realize what can come of what you do. The realize if something should be avoided then avoid it.
Well the person who made this thread is obviously just a troll, or just really stupid. Condoms and Birthcontrol pills doesn't always work. And yeah adoption isn't such a great thing. They might not get adopted, might end up with someone bad, they will always wonder who their mother&father is... And it's not that much better for the mother either.
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Natsy
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you fucking cow.
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EmilyAnn
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OP, I think you would've gotten along with Hitler.
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Justins Luvmuffin
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that's the stupidest thing i have EVER heard. that baby has a chance at a life and you'd take it away just like that? GTFO
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Quote: from dunebug at 2:35 am on July 28, 2008
Quote: from Let Love In at 7:51 pm on July 27, 2008
No, but going through with the birth and then finding a nice adoptive family is.
That's your morals, not hers or anyone else's. Stop trying to push them on her and get off your high horse. You are no more right or good than a woman who has an abortion and in fact, you might be more wrong contributing yet more fodder to an already critically failing and overcrowded adoption system.
Kay, first off, don't criticize me for giving my opinion, which I am entitled to. I'm not attempting to "force my morals on her", I'm just stating that in my opinion, having an abortion isn't taking real responsibility for your actions. Nowhere did I say anything like "you're a horrible person for getting an abortion and you should have put the kid up for adoption instead". I was just adding my two cents. And as far as the whole "failing and overcrowded adoption system" line, I can't deny that there are certainly problems with the adoption system and it's nowhere near perfect, but I've got to be honest and say that I really don't know much about the state adoption system, etc. What I do know is that in 2004, my aunt and uncle adopted my little cousin from a small, private USA adoption organization, and they had a lovely experience. I think the trick with adoption is finding the right agency and putting in the effort to make sure that your baby will be taken care of and found a nice, safe home as opposed to just dumping the kid off as a ward of the state. Personally, I think that the "anti-adoption" crowd just likes to hide behind statements like that, about the "critically failing and overcrowded adoption system" claim. There are a lot of different options regarding agencies and potential families, and if only the birth parent would put in the effort to meet with potential families and put some effort into it, it would make for a much easier exchange. It doesn't have to be as hard as you make it sound, and you talk like there's no such thing as a nice adoptive family these days and like everyone's out to get these people.
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