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Relationship problem

Replies: 15 — Last Post July 23 7:21am by vman5911

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( Rachym22 )

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Ok basically I'm going out with this guy and he absolutely adores me he says he wants to marry me and have kids with me he's totally head over heels. the problem is i feel the same some days and then other days i will feel nothing for him and i don't no what to do because i don't wanna hurt him any ideas on what to do

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Teenie1

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Its not meant to be, your scared of the commitments.

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hopelessbutt

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it's typical. engaged couples feel that way too..and also
married couples. but you're a teenager..so it's puppy love. the guy just wants to fuck you.

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Quote: from Teenie1 at 2:03 pm on July 23, 2008

Its not meant to be, your scared of the commitments.

That doesn't mean the relationship can't work, it just means they have some issues to work through.

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Al Legator

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Head over heels is wonderful. It doesn't last though - NEVER..it's not designed to last... and you need to have plans and common values and goals in life. And you shouldn't be seriously considering marriage based solely on head over heels feelings.

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audrey820

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How long have you guys been together?

It sounds like he might be moving too fast for you right now. He's making big plans, but maybe you're not ready for all of that yet. Doesn't mean you don't care about him. It just means that you might need more time before you're ready.

If you do think it's all moving too fast, talk to him. You have to communicate with him. Let him know that you aren't quite ready and you'd appreciate if he would slow down with you and try to match your pace. But make sure he knows that you care and you want to be with him. You just need more time to get to where he is right now.

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kid, I wrote back,
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DrunkenNightmare

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Well i know how you feel.
I'm in my teens & im engaged..
I really love my bf but some days i have no feelings for him..
But the relationship is working very well even thoe we argue alot. Tbh i think the way i feel sometimes and the arguements just makes us stronger and keeps us together.

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We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.But you know something ? the love game is never called off on account of darkness. !

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Tigerhawk

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Thats how it's supposed to be. How do you think fights happen between married couples. The cuples sometimes do not really feel into each other. Do you think you actually have feelings for this guy though?

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tennisplayerV2

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dump him...honestly...let him get someone better and that will love him back all the time....i had a guy like that...and i knew it hurt him...but his is much happier with the gf he has currently and is totally in love with.

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hopelessbutt

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Quote: from tennisplayerV2 at 6:24 am on July 23, 2008

dump him...honestly...let him get someone better and that will love him back all the time....i had a guy like that...and i knew it hurt him...but his is much happier with the gf he has currently and is totally in love with.

"Being totally in love" Is fantasying and unrealistic.

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( Rachym22 )

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Quote: from audrey820 at 2:11 pm on July 23, 2008

How long have you guys been together?
It sounds like he might be moving too fast for you right now. He's making big plans, but maybe you're not ready for all of that yet. Doesn't mean you don't care about him. It just means that you might need more time before you're ready.
If you do think it's all moving too fast, talk to him. You have to communicate with him. Let him know that you aren't quite ready and you'd appreciate if he would slow down with you and try to match your pace. But make sure he knows that you care and you want to be with him. You just need more time to get to where he is right now.

Only about 2 months he is going really fast and i'm too young to get married. but i still like him i just dont wanna go to fast

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( Rachym22 )

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Quote: from Tigerhawk at 2:23 pm on July 23, 2008

Thats how it's supposed to be. How do you think fights happen between married couples. The cuples sometimes do not really feel into each other. Do you think you actually have feelings for this guy though?

Ye i do I'm sure of it it's just some days i feel like i don't

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audrey820

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Quote: from Rachym22 at 9:31 am on July 23, 2008

Quote: from audrey820 at 2:11 pm on July 23, 2008
How long have you guys been together?
It sounds like he might be moving too fast for you right now. He's making big plans, but maybe you're not ready for all of that yet. Doesn't mean you don't care about him. It just means that you might need more time before you're ready.
If you do think it's all moving too fast, talk to him. You have to communicate with him. Let him know that you aren't quite ready and you'd appreciate if he would slow down with you and try to match your pace. But make sure he knows that you care and you want to be with him. You just need more time to get to where he is right now.

Only about 2 months he is going really fast and i'm too young to get married. but i still like him i just dont wanna go to fast

Yeahhhhh, 2 months is really soon. Sounds like he's in the honeymoon phase we all go through when we start a relationship.

Talk to him and express how you're feeling. No relationship makes it without honesty and communication. :)

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atarisrocks

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give it time but dont give him false hope and agree to marriage or stuff like that if u still unsure about your feeling for him

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