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What should i do?
Replies: 8 — Last Post July 23 6:43am by Tigerhawk
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( DrunkenNightmare )


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I'm in a relationship with this boy. We are both in our teens & we are engaged. We have known each other for a long time. We have had many past flings and petty relationships.

We are in a full blown relationship atm and we always argue  . We argue other little things.. stupid things. Sometimes we don't even sort it out and we just do back to normal.. but everytime we argue he always blames it on me.. even if it is his fault   I really don't want the relationship to end..

What should i do?  

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I feel so.. empty /3

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LostInTheClouds


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The first thing that I think you should do is this: You should sit him down and talk to him. I mean, if this relationship between your boyfriend and yourself  is as serious as you say it is, then you should be able to be open with one another about everything and anything the might need to be talked about.  

Obviously, not everything that the two of you fight about is your fault. He needs to realize that arguments are two sided, and they therefore have two sides. This means that it can never be just one persons fault. You should realize that already, and you are going to need to make him realize that as well if you want whatever relationship you have to work out and continue to grow stronger.

Good luck!

Post edited at 8:30 pm on July 26, 2008 by LostInTheClouds

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jayney16


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you just need to talk to him and sort things out between you and him

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( DrunkenNightmare )


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Quote: from jayney16 at 6:26 am on July 23, 2008
you just need to talk to him and sort things out between you and him

He is kinda hard to talk to about things.. he is like yer im not interested or he will take the piss.. he is abit of a twat & he knows i think that as well.

Its even harder cause many of my friends fancy him and he likes it  

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I feel so.. empty /3

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tennisplayerV2


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Quote: from LostInTheClouds at 6:24 am on July 23, 2008
You should sit him down and talk to him. I mean, if your relationship is as serious as you say it is, then you should be able to be open with one another about everything.  

Obviously, not everything that the two of you fight about is your fault. You should realize that, and you are going to need to make him realize that as well.

ya this is what you should do..and relax if it is not meant to be you will find someone new.

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Tigerhawk


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Blame it on yourself when it is your fault. Simple as that. Dont be afraid to apologize. And if he becomes abusive, then end it.

Seems to me that you don't really love him

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amanitta


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teens and engaged ..interesting !
argue is too normal in any relationship..Love is much like a wild rose, beautiful and calm, but willing to draw blood in its defense..it's love !

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( DrunkenNightmare )


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Quote: from Tigerhawk at 6:28 am on July 23, 2008
Blame it on yourself when it is your fault. Simple as that. Dont be afraid to apologize. And if he becomes abusive, then end it.

Seems to me that you don't really love him

How don't i love him?
I've tried everything to make the relationship work.. he always threatens me that he will split up with me for my friend as well  

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I feel so.. empty /3

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Tigerhawk


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Quote: from DrunkenNightmare at 9:29 am on July 23, 2008
Quote: from Tigerhawk at 6:28 am on July 23, 2008
Blame it on yourself when it is your fault. Simple as that. Dont be afraid to apologize. And if he becomes abusive, then end it.  

 Seems to me that you don't really love him

How don't i love him?
I've tried everything to make the relationship work.. he always threatens me that he will split up with me for my friend as well

That would be a sign that he doesn't love you anymore and he doesn't feel it for you anymore. But you try really hard, maybe he DOES want to work it out with you too. Talk to him about it.

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