( duesxmachina )
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i've had it basically forever (SAD) it just never seems that way since im so talkative with my friends. thing is, i freeze when i'm alone, or in a crowd, say at a mall. even if i'm with my friends, there are so many people, so many eyes. i know it's possible for an extrovert to have SAD, because i am, i love being around people but i HATE THE FUCKING ANXIETY THAT COMES WITH IT!!! im pretty hard on myself. i've done lots of things that most kids would be like "shit, dude, i feel pretty cool now". i've gone on dates, parties, 90 mph car rides. but the anxiety is still there. that negative voice is still there. i think it's what's driven me to horrible depression and *ahem* being hospitilized. what do i do? i want to live again.
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xcrimsonxtearsx
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tell someone like your parents and maybe they can get you help. i've had SAD for a long time but nothing seems to work for me. :(
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( duesxmachina )
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noone has gotten over it?!
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Katie57
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google it! make sure the sight your on has good info!
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maybach musik
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Quote: from duesxmachina at 2:28 pm on July 23, 2008
 noone has gotten over it?! 
you dont get over it........you cant dont matter what
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( duesxmachina )
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Quote: from maybach musik at 2:31 pm on July 23, 2008
Quote: from duesxmachina at 2:28 pm on July 23, 2008
noone has gotten over it?!
you dont get over it........you cant dont matter what
says who?! it's the worst feeling ever. there mus tbe some hypnosis file, or THING i haven't done. i've asked out a girl, i've gotten in a fist fight, i've stood up to my boss. what do i have to do???
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woodbridgeguy1
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I understand where your coming from because I suffer from the same thing. I spoke to my physician and she recommended me to a psychologist, I haven't gone yet but it seems like it may be the only way to get over this.
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( duesxmachina )
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ok ill rephrase it how do you deal with it?
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B E K
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I used to have it really badly, but it's gotten better. I've put myself in more social situations. I'm in marching band, and while waiting with other bands for competition results and such, it really helped me get over my anxiety in large groups of people I don't know. Mostly it was just simple dares people I knew gave me to randomly talk to strangers. I remember once I walked up to this cute guy and asked for his number because my friends said they would give me ten dollars. He gave it to me and I started talking to him. After that I kind of just opened up. Do it just once, and I'm sure it'll help. Make friends at the mall with the mall rats. Talk to someone that works at your favorite store at the mall about things you like. It's really not hard to overcome it if you put yourself in the situations you're most afraid of.
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5:47 pm on July 23, 2008 | Joined July 2008 | 36 Days Active
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( duesxmachina )
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i do go to the mall alone, but im a nervous wreck the entire time!
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