My bf n I have a few issues. When we first got together we were always holding each other or always around each other, but we broke up nd got back together. Now things are really different, I want him to hold me like he used to and when I ask him he does, mostimes, but he seems like hes just throwing him arms around me, I know that he likes to be held so I always wrap my arms around him from behind, n when I told him tonight that I wanted to be held and asked him to hold me he said that he doesnt feel like holding me. So I tried to talk to him about it and told him that he doesn't hold me like he used to and he got pissed and started ignoring me. Idk what to do. it bothers me to hold this all in but when I try to talk to him he turns it around and makes it my fault.
Is there an easy way to get the point across to him or should I jus do the same thing back?