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I don't understand what's happening here
Replies: 14Last Post July 23 4:12am by peekabeekaboo
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I'm going anon because some IRL people I know are on here, and I don't really want the world to know all this yet.

I'm a girl, I have a boyfriend, and I love him very much. However, there is a girl that I liked for a long time. I thought I was over her, apparently I'm not. Because everytime I see her, she looks so sweet I just want to hug her and make her safe.

It's gotten to the point though, in the past, when I've basically acted like an idiot around her just to try to get her to like me better, or do silly things like ignore my boyfriend to talk to her and only her.

I don't understand what's happening. I don't want to have sex with her or anything, just when I see her with her boyfriend, I wish I could have that same confidence with her body. The same liberties, to hug her. Not so much to kiss her, though I did want that for a really long time.

I only have another 3 months or so with this girl, she's graduating this year. Anyone have any thoughts on what's happening?


12:45 am on July 23, 2008
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Anons are pussys. If anything just make an alternate account. I have many.

And for your situation, I suggest a threesome to relieve some tension.

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i think you're in love with her.

12:47 am on July 23, 2008
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Is that all lesbians do? Hug eachother and feel safe?

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Quote: from Valient at 5:47 pm on July 23, 2008

Anons are pussys. If anything just make an alternate account. I have many.

And for your situation, I suggest a threesome to relieve some tension.


I don't want an alternate account. I have enough trouble remembering my email accounts, on top of everything else.

I don't want a threesome, either, in the off-chance that I end up getting more attached to her than I should be.


12:51 am on July 23, 2008
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Quote: from Anonymous at 5:47 pm on July 23, 2008

i think you're in love with her.

I don't think I am. I do the same thing for him too, just not around her.


12:51 am on July 23, 2008
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I would day that ur starting to have feeling about her that u might be uncomfortable with, maybe if you talk to her maybe u guys could be a little more then just friends (inclure ur bf too if he might like it) just make sure he is ok with it b4 u talk with her

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Sounds like one for the therapist.

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Quote: from aGIRLunknown at 5:52 pm on July 23, 2008

I would day that ur starting to have feeling about her that u might be uncomfortable with, maybe if you talk to her maybe u guys could be a little more then just friends (inclure ur bf too if he might like it) just make sure he is ok with it b4 u talk with her

I don't want to, in case I get more attached to her than I should be.


12:59 am on July 23, 2008
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Quote: from berrycuda at 5:55 pm on July 23, 2008

Sounds like one for the therapist.

I might bring it up with him next time I go.


12:59 am on July 23, 2008
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neither do i lol

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i think you're falling in love with her but you're too afraid to admit it to yourself....

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Quote: from thesillyasian at 7:35 pm on July 23, 2008

i think you're falling in love with her but you're too afraid to admit it to yourself....

God, I hope I'm not. That would make an already-awkward situation worse.


3:24 am on July 23, 2008
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u can't help who u fall for, it just happens.....

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Maybe your confusin love with looking up to her, wanting what shw has.
 

 


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