I figured I would get these kind of answers, but it's reassuring. So thanks.
10:26 pm on July 22, 2008
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there's a reason he's bisexual and not gay....and then only reason to know the answer to your question regarding marriage is by asking him...everyone's situation is different.
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Relationships change. People change. Situations change. Fast romances seldom last and the things that one commits to when they are in the romantic period of a relationship most likely will not remain the same. If a couple goes through several years together and the feelings remain the same then the next step may be marriage. However the RISK factor is going to be much greater when one or both are bisexuals. I don't think this drive ever is removed. Unfortunately in most cases there are children involved which is the really bad part.
My answer...I don't think I would marry a bi is I knew about it beforehand.
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me n my gf are entirely open on this. shes allowed to fool around with other women but doesnt cause shee would feel horrible. im allowed to fool around with other guys but i wouldnt unless she was foolin around with another girl. i want to get married she is iffy on it cause she doesnt want to go through all that and then us divorce.
I agree with this. Actully because i am this persons girlfriend. Jeremy is right, you just have to be open. And yes i think a bi person could want to marry you if your the right person. Just because he is bi it doesnt mean he doesnt want to be with you or want to marry you or w/e. The only thing is maybe you guys should make a rule up likes he alowed to do things with guys (if you want). Maybe you guys can even have a three some.. (Gosh, i cant belive i said that i think those are degrading) But maybe its somthing youwant to do. For myself and my boyfriend who i just quoted this on, i would never have a threesum because i dont like the idea of group sex, i like it 1 on 1. But yes we are very open. Talk to him about your feelings!
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Quote: from Anonymous at 10:16 pm on July 22, 2008
So I've been dating this guy for quite awhile. I love him and he says he loves me.
The thing about our relationship is that he is bisexual. That doesn't bother me in the slightest, so long as he's faithful to me while we're in our relationship.
The thing is though, I was just wondering if he would ever want to marry me.
I am terribly naive about bisexuality, since I don't actually know anyone who is except for my boyfriend.
Would you want to get married to who you're "supposed" to (as in, the opposite sex) and life a "normal" life and have children? If you're a woman, would you miss being with women and vice versa?
Message me and maybe we can talk, i can give you some advice.
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me n my gf are entirely open on this. shes allowed to fool around with other women but doesnt cause shee would feel horrible. im allowed to fool around with other guys but i wouldnt unless she was foolin around with another girl. i want to get married she is iffy on it cause she doesnt want to go through all that and then us divorce. 
