His mom gets him really mad and he's been fighting with his family a lot. Lately our relationship has been sorta ..muted. There's not that excitement we had before. We would always go out together and do so many fun things and now we just sit in his room and get depressed.

Do you think this is a result of our feelings for each other changing or is it the fact that he's under house arrest thats making us feel sad when we're in his room.

I still love him, even more than I did before. But every time i come over i feel a wave of depression come over me the second i enter his room, and then it changes the way i act around him.

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What did you expect?

The house arrest also doesn't help things. :)

The house arrest is what's making you both feel that way but since you haven't really built any strong foundation then it's hard for your relationship to go through such a hard time.

Just try to give it time and just see what happens.

Post edited at 9:34 pm on July 22, 2008 by Metacarpi

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i am not questioning your love for him here, just you clear-sightedness

and you can NOT become his assistant and not girlfriend, you can NOT let HIS problems swallow you. regardless of your relationship, you have to make sure your state of mind is healthy, and him affectng you the way you describe is not healthy

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He who is not busy being born is surely busy dying- Bob Dylan

how long is he under house arrest for?

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it's just his house perhaps

how long is he under house arrest for?

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just a few more days, then off to rehab for a month, then he's moving out.

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