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Im kind of upset...
Replies: 11Last Post July 23 7:33am by vman5911
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( illburrockstar )


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my birthday is exactlly a week from today. Im gonna be 17. My boyfriend and i had planned to spend the day together and go out for dinner and it was just going to be a nice day. But 2 weeks ago his grandpa got sick, so he moved 2 hours away to go help his grandpa out. It doesnt bother me so much that he is gone just that now he is going to miss my birthday. Its not a real big deal, but it the first "holiday" type occasion since we have been dating, and we wanted it to be special. Should i be a little upset or is it no big deal?

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ashleyacid


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how do you know hes not going to show up?

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my birthday is the 31. i have fucking band camp all day

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hellotheree


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you might feel let down, and sad.
but he kinda has a duty to his gramps.
you can plan another special night as make up

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desireelovesyouu


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Can you go with him?


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mudonthetires14


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don't be upset, just schedule a raincheck and go hang with your friends or something instead.

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penguinsrule


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well, just be glad it isn't a major one like 18 or 21 :S....sure, you can be disappointed, but his grandpa's health is very important as well and i'm sure he feels bad

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woodbridgeguy1


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Its natural to feel disappointed, but in life unexpected things will happen and it's no use getting upset over them. We can't control very much in life, so although its natural to feel disappointed don't get upset over something neither you or him could have foreseen or controlled. I hope you have a Happy Birthday, and I'm sure you will have plenty of other "holiday" type occasions to spend with your boyfriend.

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fullmooncurse


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Well he can't help his grandpa is sick.
But you never know he might surpise you

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HuffleHaire


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Its completely normal to feel bad, and that's fine. Just know he probably feels just as bad as you do, and hopefully you'll be able to spend some time with him for the occasion later.

Hope everything works out.

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Young Deezy


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If you are actually looking a long relationship with him, you should be more understandable. Things happen in life, you got the choice to either cope with everything, or mope around crying about it. Nobody likes the girl who whines about everything.

You have to understand that his grandfather needs him right now, and if you guys are planning on getting really serious about your relationship, then use this as the first step. Things don't always happen the way you wanted them to happen. If your boyfriend calls you, act like nothing is wrong. If he senses any frustration in your voice, he might think secondly on where you are actually coming.

I totally understand where you coming from on this, but I think you should ease up a bit. You'll get a first of everything in life, and I'm sure if you miss your first holiday with him, your relationship won't collapse. I wanted to meet my dad's father for the FIRST TIME, but he ended up passing away a week earlier. How do you think I felt about that?

I hope everything works out for you.

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vman5911


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You have every right to be disappointed, but you gotta understand that his gramps needs some help.

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