ok. i meet this guy about a year ago and we didnt talk much then but lately we have been talking alot. i really really like him. he is everything im looking for. We use to talk all day and night. then he wanted to go out with me (like a date), but i havent seen him in almost a year and i've gained weight since i last saw him and i jus dont feel that good about myself anymore. im really pretty but im kinda big like 170. but i dress really good and everything i jus dont feel as pretty cause im bigger and i didnt want him to see me and not want me so i stood him up. he was really upset and said if i didnt give him a reason why i did him like that he wouldn't talk to me anymore. i didn't give him the reason cause i was scared of what he would say so he wont talk to me and the last thing he said was he felt like he was falling in love with me and he really wanted to be together and now im really hurt cause i wanted that too. so what do i do?
12:30 pm on July 22, 2008 | Joined July 2008 | 2 Days Active Join to learn more about brebre101Tennessee, United States | Bi-curiousFemale | 1 Posts | 21 Points
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As difficult as this sounds, you have to tell him the truth; not only will he feel better, you'll also feel relieved. He'd be an idiot to leave you because of your weight. You deserve someone who loves you just the way you are, and if he doesn't; it's his loss.
------- And the rain will kill us all, throw ourselves against the wall, But no-one else can see, the preservation of the martyr in me.
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