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my grandpa is in the hospital and he has like tubes all over him.. i really wanna go see him, but its hard to see him in pain, and with all the tubes and wires. they say he'll get out soon, like in a month,
but thats not soon enuff. but idontknow if i wanna see him like that.
idontknow what to do. can you help me!?
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10:29 am on July 22, 2008
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Aixi
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You really should go see him.
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wmudude
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You have to go see him. How would you feel if you were in his position and nobody came to see you? You wouldn't feel very loved, would you?
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im with stupid
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You should go see him.
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meehduh
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you should see him, but if you think you cant take it, get out! seriously.
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MyFavoriteAccident
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See him.
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AllEyezOnME
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im pretty sure he would be delighted to see a familiar face. You should go
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Favole
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it would mean the world to him if you go see him
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temppy bones
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I was in this situation a few months ago, I decided that I didn't want to see him and even though my family kept asking i continued to refuse because I didn't want to see him like that, and after about a month of going to the hospital almost every day, he passed away and i never got to see him again. So its your call but I would...
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imsorry0388
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see him you never kno if your going to loose him my sister forgot to cakk my gma on her bday and she had no medical problems but was found dead the next day
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DrunkenMess
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go see him! you may regret it if you dont
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Young Deezy
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You have to not be so selfish and live up to the standards that you want him to get out. I'm sure if you were in the hospital with tubes all over you, he'd still visit you. It sounds like you and your grandfather have a strong relationship, and I'm sure he would love nothing more for you to go see him. You have to be strong for him right now, it's a very hard time in his life. You have to squeeze in every moment you have with him. Have you tried talking to your family about how you are feeling right now? It's a very good thing to let out your feelings instead of holding them in. Your family will always be there to listen to you, most of the time. If the doctors said he'd be out in a month, I'm sure his condition is not life threatening. If your family is not available to talk to at the moment, try talking to a school counselor and tell them about your situation. They'd be there to listen to your problems. I hope your grandpa gets better, and good luck.
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amiee
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Seeing him in hospital like that will be shocking and a bit upsetting initially. That's understandable and it's ok that it upsets you a little. No one likes to see someone they love all wired up like that, and it can look pretty scary. The thing is, the important thing, is that he's going to be ok, right? He'll get out soon enough and you won't have to see him like that anymore. However, until then, I think visiting him would be a good idea. You'll get over that initial shock of seeing him and after spending a few minutes there with him you'll probably start to look past it and see your old grandpa again. Things like this are always upsetting an, again, it's ok that it upsets you and makes you uncomfortable to see. It isn't the best thing in the world to have to face, but think of him. He needs his family right now. He's still the same person, and he'll be needing you. Go visit.
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