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How many people beleive it's wrong to 'bring a child up religious'? |
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Replies: 130 Last Post July 28, 2008 9:07pm by draakprinses
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| It is wrong to bring a child up religious |
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36% |
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| It is not wrong to bring a child up religious |
60 |
53% |
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| It is more wrong than sexually abusing a child to bring them up religious |
12 |
10% |
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peace love sunshine
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Quote: from draakprinses at 9:30 pm on July 21, 2008
Quote: from peace love sunshine at 9:27 pm on July 21, 2008
Quote: from Fortis Obscurum at 9:19 pm on July 21, 2008
Quote: from peace love sunshine at 9:17 pm on July 21, 2008
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Quote: from neotreo at 11:07 pm on July 21, 2008
it's not wrong... but it's wrong to teach them lies as truth. 
Oh quit. There is no way to know who's right, so just stop. 
Actually, science disproves most of religion. That, and common sense. 
Please, show me this proof of disproof. 
go to " http://www.godisimaginary.com " And read. 
God is Imaginary? How old is the person that created this website? I read one "proof" and decided it's not worth my time. I believe what I believe, you believe what you believe, and there's no changing that. We could go in circles all day. 
Not wanting to get in the middle of this...but how can you expect to be taken seriously if you won't bother yourself to know what the opposition is saying? I mean, how can you defend yourself and your beliefs, if you don't know what you're defending against? 
Not sure if you were talking to me, though I'm pretty sure you were. I see what you're saying, however, I rarely get into religious debates, and when i do, if they're going nowhere I try to end them.
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MushroomSatsujin
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I dont think its right to teach it to them as truth...I believe that they should find it themselves. It has much more meaning than blind faith.
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ReelStreetlights
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I wouldn't say it is wrong, so much as it is not the best way to bring up a child.
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katyduck
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For the most parts, faith communities are very loving and nurturing environments for children to be brought up in. I am not a particularly religious person, but I am very grateful for the sustained efforts and caring nature of the community in which I was brought up in. I don't for a moment regret attending a Christian Brothers primary and a Dominican nun's secondary school, nor do I have anything but gratitude for the kind giving of the people in the parish of St Gerard's.
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nik1
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I think the best exposure to good values, morals, character and direction come within the home and not left up to a bunch of hypocrites. If Dawkins said this he's an idiot too. What he is saying is that it's ok to abuse children.
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Quote: from nik1 at 12:06 pm on July 22, 2008
What he is saying is that it's ok to abuse children. 
Actually, I think he's saying they're both bad.
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exceedinglyrare
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If raising a child in a religious setting is abuse, where are the clinical studies that show how the effects of doing so mirror the effects of actual abuse?
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Quote: from nik1 at 5:17 am on July 22, 2008
Well, it's definitely wrong to abuse children and abuse is not limited to sexual abuse. I suspect in 95% of the cases he's right about religions affect on children as well. 
First, bias does not count specifically as evidence, nor is it considered applicable whenever denouncing religion, in general. Second, if you're unable to provide impartial and thorough double-blinded trials where merely raising religious children is applicable to sexual trauma within households, then you'd have a partial leg to stand on. Third, simply using an arbitrary number does absolutely nothing to promote any form of authority for what you've actually stated. In fact, it merely makes your original point mute if it simply is biased hearsay. Finally, as Tangora mentioned earlier in this thread, since when is religious tolerance applicable with denouncing religious rights and privileges, or synonymous with common emotional-physical-sexual abuse within households? Sounds a bit counterproductive to not only say that you disagree with what a common belief is and then turn around to say that it isn't appropriate to tell children lies as though they're at any authority to mention otherwise besides mere preference. And contrary to popular belief, preference does not fully dictate reality, nor are you the set standard for relevance simply because you believe that you are beforehand.
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Quote: from Tangaroa at 11:25 pm on July 21, 2008
I do not believe that it is wrong as long as they are not punished if they choose not to believe at some point. Seems kind of unreasonable to expect freedom of religion for oneself if one is not prepared to allow freedom of religion to others, regardless of if they are ones children or not. 
For others I agree with this sentiment. As far as myself, even when I was religious, I prefer to not raise my daughter under religious influence, but rather let her decide for herself. When I was a Christian I noticed many insincere Christians because of their parents influencing their religious preference and it led them to be more unaware of why they held their own position. Likewise, as an atheist now, I wouldn't want my daughter to say, "Well I'm an atheist because my dad is." There are certain things in life - and religion when you weigh in what it claims is one of these - that are not minor decisions. Becoming a Muslim, Christians, or any religion can be a major decision, whereas other decisions like culture can be minor ones. Although I would encourage her to learn about as many religions as she is able to, I'd hope that my daughter would make her own decision based on what she desires. But that has been a personal preference of mine throughout my religious years and now my atheistic years as well. tk
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