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How many people beleive it's wrong to 'bring a child up religious'? |
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Replies: 130 Last Post July 28, 2008 9:07pm by draakprinses
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| It is wrong to bring a child up religious |
41 |
36% |
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| It is not wrong to bring a child up religious |
60 |
53% |
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| It is more wrong than sexually abusing a child to bring them up religious |
12 |
10% |
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exceedinglyrare
Delicate Thing
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I'm still trying to see how any of this is unkind or abusive. Whether or not you outwardly say, "What I believe is right; everything else is wrong," your kid is going to pick up on it, unless you simply stop having conversations when your kid is in earshot, and they're probably going to feel that way too for a long time, whether you're religious or areligious. Kids follow more what you do than what you say (hence the reason children of smokers tend to become smokers themselves, even if their parents told them "Don't smoke." The idea of "do as I say and not as I do" doesn't work at all in parenting), so even not teaching your child about a religion and just continuing in your own beliefs is going to cause them to have a bias towards your beliefs. Now, if anyone's going to suggest that a parent should just stop having beliefs or practicing their beliefs because they're around impressionable children, you seriously need a slap.
------- Let yourself be enchanted, You just might break through To ever ever after
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TRUCUBANDYME305
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I think it is right to bring up a child with religion. But if when they grow up they choose to not be religious or follow another religion then they should be respected.
------- Cowards die many times before their deaths, The valiant never taste of death but once. -Julius Caesar
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exceedinglyrare
Delicate Thing
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Neither did mine, but there are parents who do that; are they also being unkind to their children?
------- Let yourself be enchanted, You just might break through To ever ever after
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Takinam
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Quote: from exceedinglyrare at 6:19 am on July 27, 2008
Out of curiosity, which mainstream religion involves death or murder for disbelieving it? Furthermore, how do you know that religions are lies? 
Some parts of mainstream Christian religion are not biologically applicable. As far as our known biology is concerned, these things are lies. Therefore, at least portion of Christian religion is a lie. If your child was to absorb all such religious invoice, that child would be absorbing some fallacy even if he were to also absorb some truth. You would the be lying to your child. And both Islam and Christian involve some kind of fear of death and some kind of righteous murder in the name of god. Stoning, cross crap, burning, etc. Post edited at 6:39 am on July 27, 2008 by Takinam
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