I basically want to send an anonomous email or message to someone...She is dating a boy who makes me very upset.  I used to like him long ago, but since have gotten over it.  For a long time I envied the girl . . . I both hated her and then I loved her..

I wanted to tell her that she taught me certain things, like how to get over this guy, how to take chances and date other men...She is actually a lot like me and I see myself in her a lot.  I just want to let her know that she has affected my life, even tho we dont know each other.  I also want to tell her to take care of HIM for me and to always be thankful for him.

Please be honest...is this creepy or weird?  And if so, what can be done to not seem that way?

Would you personally be flattered if someone said something like "Ohh you really inspired me to go out there and date other guys. I used to be selfconscious, and I think we seem similar. So thanks for being the brave one"???

And also, should I give her my real name?

Just know that it's kind of creepy and over-dramatic.

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