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Anonmous Email to Girlfriend of old Crush
thanking her
Replies: 9Last Post July 20, 2008 6:16am by Is this you
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I need your honest opinions.  And this is kinda long...

I basically want to send an anonomous email or message to someone...She is dating a boy who makes me very upset.  I used to like him long ago, but since have gotten over it.  For a long time I envied the girl . . . I both hated her and then I loved her..

I wanted to tell her that she taught me certain things, like how to get over this guy, how to take chances and date other men...She is actually a lot like me and I see myself in her a lot.  I just want to let her know that she has affected my life, even tho we dont know each other.  I also want to tell her to take care of HIM for me and to always be thankful for him.

Please be honest...is this creepy or weird?  And if so, what can be done to not seem that way?

Would you personally be flattered if someone said something like "Ohh you really inspired me to go out there and date other guys. I used to be selfconscious, and I think we seem similar. So thanks for being the brave one"???

And also, should I give her my real name?


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alastrxxna


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Dont give your real name, send it anon.
i would be creeped, honestly.

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MaryLin


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Go for it but tell her who you are. Otherwise it would be weird.

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lovemetwicetoday


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Don't bother it'll only frustrate you more, probably bring back old memories of you and him...

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Birdo


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Write anonymous letters to her, The Perks of Being a Wallflower style.

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xwhylovewhyhatex


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Well, it would probably seem weird if you don't know eachother at all, like you stalk her life or something to find out this stuff that inspires you.  

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cherubcheex

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Chances are your ex boyfriend will also find out what you said to her and it is kind of weird.

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twilightdancer


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I think you should do it, but I agree just make it anonymous since you don't know each other anyway.

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Evolutionism


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If you really, really, need to do this for a sense of closure, then go ahead and send it.

Just know that it's kind of creepy and over-dramatic.

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Is this you


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I don't think it's necessary, and it might not make her feel that good.

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