The jerk who got me pregnant -- LiveWire Teen Forums

Quote: from Anonymous at 9:40 am on Aug. 19, 2008

Quote: from ilovetosuck at 8:51 pm on Aug. 18, 2008
Quote: from swtpie at 8:22 pm on Aug. 18, 2008
The guy should be there. It's a big thing. After...please don't sleep with him again. You know he won't be there, and is an ass. No worth sleeping with again.

Returning to the actual question.
lol.
:)
well... I've been following this,
and I think you both have vaild points.
As it is "Anonymous's" life,
I would much rather see the poor child have a chance at a good life. Who knows? Maybe the child could be a GORGEOUS girl or boy, who can change the world.
But then again, it could turn out to be a criminal.
we never know,
but why would we want to assume?
Btw, the child will have NO recollection of their birth mother. the child is too young.
My neighbor was adopted, and he's sweet, funny, and enjoy's his life.
But Anonymous, you're right.
This is YOUR life, and YOUR decision.
We just want u to know how vital this is, cuz once you abort the baby, it's gone...
and you'll never be the same...
My stance on abortion:
Last resort. For example, a girl from a culture where if she had sex before marriage, she was to be stoned, was raped, and got pregnant. So her choices: Abort the baby, or get stoned.
Hence, the availablity of abortion.
well, this has gotten WAYYY off topic...
and if you don't mind me asking...
just how old are you???
I don't think anyone ever got around to confirming that....

I've thought the exact same thing, I know that i may be aborting a baby that could be WONDERFUL and change the world who knows? But right now I just cant have a baby and its sad and its selfish i know but I cant put my family through this again-- my sister just had a baby [and it was born premature] Im still in school with no income both of my parents would be unable to help the guy wont help me and adoption is out of the question.. I wouldnt be able to give a child up that I had in my stomach for nine months.. And im almost 19.. And i know the gravity of my decision i think about it all day all night what if this what if that but no one seems to understand me.. except my best friend who i told and the guy which is only cause he doesnt want a baby anyway.. And seeing how people react to this ONLINE just lets me know that i will never tell anyone else other than my sister and maybe my mother if i get the nerve but no one else.. I always knew people were judgemental and close-minded but it just seems like a lot of unneeded stress in my life to let anyone else know about this.

ok, so this is no longer a question of underage sex, it's just a matter of unprotected sex.
Alright. Remember that when you tell people online, these people don't know you as a person, and can judge you based on what you say. This is probably NOT the best place to tell everyone.
It is selfish to have a baby when you don't have the money or place for it, I agree.
My "ex" best friend had a baby with my ex boyfriend. Neither of them has a job, the girl got kicked out of her hosue and put in foster care, and the father can't get a job cuz he couldn't even pass continuation school. And I think that keeping the baby was the most selfish decision she's ever made. because now, that baby doesn't even have a good shot at a good life.
So yes, you're right there.
but going back to it, killing the baby because you didn't protect yourself is also kind of selfish.
BUT I can see why it would be so hard to give the baby up for adoption seeing as u just carried it around for 9 or so months (if all goes well).

I guess you just need to do what you think is best.
I would really hate for you to have to kill it, but it's ultimately your decision, and I hope everything turns out well for you.

Do you think ur friend could come in late, or call in sick?

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