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Ok, I've been daing this girl for a year and a half and we new we were in love very quickly. We both know we are ment to be and have no secrets. Bottom line, it's a great relationship. Only one thing. We didn't have sex until about three months into the serious relationship and she was a virgin. Me, unfortuanately there was one before.  . But anyway. We got used to what we like and the sex is pretty damn good! But she is still a little shy about it. I want to make love to her almost everyday or even sometimes more and she just doesn't. For her it would be adequate to have sex maybe twice a week. I understand a comprimise in the middle would be fine but it goes deeper than that. She is self concious. She is a hot petite girl, and she thinks that she is short and flat with big hips. Granted she only has A's it's no big deal to me. So basically she feels unattractive and never wants to do it no matter how much I tell her otherwise. And because of this she never ever ever instigates things for fear of rejection. I always feel like I kind of have to coerce her into it. But she doesn't want to give it up because she says she likes it and I get her "there" almost everytime, sometimes multiple times. Occasionaly she has talked about getting implants so she wouldn't look so "little" or like a 12 year old. I heard a statistic that women who got implants as a whole became much hornier because they felt more attractive to there partner. I was wondering if this may help the situation. I will support her in what ever she wants to do, I mean it would be fun to see er with a bigger rack, but like I said earlier I love her the way she is. Is there suggestions anyone has to help or anything. Not just regarding the whether to get implants. I just want her to get past this phobia.
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some girls are just like that but she needs to open up more
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read twilight and try to act a bit like edward does around Bella later on in the book lol xx
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It's hard to say... building up self-esteem is hard, and sometimes you always have your fears, even though there's no need to. In terms of the implants, I would tell her what you said. "I will support her in what ever she wants to do, I mean it would be fun to see er with a bigger rack, but like I said earlier I love her the way she is" Minus the part about the bigger rack, lol. I would just say... "If you think that will make you feel more confident and happier with YOURSELF, then go ahead and do so. But just so you know, I think you're perfect the way you are, and I don't see any reason that you should change that." Or something like that, you get the idea. Other than that, I would just give her time. Compliment her on little things every now and then, even some of the things that she's a bit self-conscious about. And while it may seem like a long time, these kinds of things don't just disappear. Maybe as she gets older, she will come to accept herself and her body more. Just let her know how you feel, and be honest about it. And what she decides to do about it is up to her. Even then, have you ever talked to her about this? Or have you only speculated that this may be why she doesn't want to have sex? Because personally, I don't like having sex very often, I don't have much of a drive for it. So who knows, it may just be that as well.
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She just sounds shy, Just keep telling her how good she looks and eventually she might figure it out, I feel a bit like that at times but my gf loves sex and wants it as much as possible, eventually i got past the fact that i look like crap by realizing that she doesnt seem to care what i look like as long as i keep her happy which i appear to be particularly good at. i cant emphasize enough how much girls like to be told how good they look even if they dont beleive u.
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read twilight and try to act a bit like edward does around Bella later on in the book lol xx
