For some reason, he gets an erection, but when it comes close to having sex, he loses it almost all of the time. I can usually get it to come back,but I dont know why it happens. He seems embarassed when it happens, but says he isn't nervous about sex or anything..

How can I help him with it? I never make a big deal about it, or tease him about it or ANYTHING.

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So Let's Face It, This was never what you wanted
But I know, it's fun to pretend. - Day old Hate,City and Colour

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Well, just from reading this I lost my erection, so I can see where the problem comes from.

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ohhh my, that was pretty funny

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R.I.P. Cpl. Matthew J. Stanley
Always in my heart cuz

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he is a guy. Don;t listen to what is says about his feelings. He may say he isn't nervous but that dosn't mean that its true.

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Well oddly enough he's usually pretty honest. He told me the first time we had sex that he was really nervous...but maybe he's hiding it i guess..

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So Let's Face It, This was never what you wanted
But I know, it's fun to pretend. - Day old Hate,City and Colour

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He's sixteen, first of all, and not a virgin

For some reason, he gets an erection, but when it comes close to having sex, he loses it almost all of the time. I can usually get it to come back,but I dont know why it happens. He seems embarassed when it happens, but says he isn't nervous about sex or anything..

How can I help him with it? I never make a big deal about it, or tease him about it or ANYTHING.

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Maybe you're ugly?

he might also be nervous, without realising it. or try different foreplay. one thing i've learned is that sex is very much a learning experience.

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RIP my dear friends gone in '06 --like the angel