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What would you do? anyone else been in this situation before?
Bit long, but pleeeease read, advice needed
Replies: 9Last Post Aug. 21 3:29pm by Natsy
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What would you do?

Known her for years, but only been friends with her properly since my last crush, which has been about a year now. She was always there for me. I started liking her.

Built the friendship up, I told her how I felt. She was sweet about it, told me not to worry, I was a good friend etc but she didnt feel the same, she said nothing back, and thats what her friend told me

but anyway, since then, we've gotten closer and closer friends. shes probably one of my best friends now, id like to think she feels the same about me.

shes a tad strange, i cant really read if shes flirting with me sometimes or not, but she must be sometimes. but i know she wouldnt lead me on purposely.

though she probably doesnt like me, shes out of my leuge. theres signs from her that make me think she just might do, lets off steam to me, remembers little things, caring etcetc

but i dont know whether im best friend to her now, or if shes maybe starting to come around to think of me as something more..

I still really like her, should I say something? how? does she still know how I feel?

I dont want to make things weird with us, shes lovely, dont want to make her feel uncomfortable or pressured into anything either

Im thinking either suck it up and do nothing, or just tottaly go for it, take her by the hand and try and kiss her (i know that kind of doesnt work with making her feel pressured)

adivce pleease, anything would be helpful



2:51 pm on Aug. 21, 2008
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hm i think she's just being friendly, if she liked you and knew you liked her i reckon she'd tell you or at the very least do something highly affectionate.

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i felt like you were telling my story there im in the same situ at the moment

message me if you like.

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aww so sweet my friend =)

she sounds wonderful n you sincerly concerned =)
ppl worry that once they get stuck in the friends zone, its over for them. lol usually tho its not at all like that.. it jus takes a bit longer that way lol if ya've stay her vvery best friend for so long, she WilL come around to you

dont go off n explode ya feelins to her goin off on a judgement thats all based on flirtin that ya'r not even sure of.. play it cool for now.. next time ya think shes flirtin, go along with it [warning== keep it playful tho n not seductive flirtin.. cuz if she ISNT really flirtin that'll turn her off instanly] well i hope ive beeen a bit of help
msg me soon! lettme kno how it goes!

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hey if shes flirting with u then flirt with her, make her smile and keep being nice to her (complements help) and it could lead to something.

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any advice would be helpful? ok then... don't try to nail jelly to the ceiling.

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Like horney123, I feel like you are telling my story. If you want to talk, PM me.


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Quote: from Natsy at 3:04 pm on Aug. 21, 2008

any advice would be helpful? ok then... don't try to nail jelly to the ceiling.

To busy nailing your mother =D.


3:12 pm on Aug. 21, 2008
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sure, say something to her. clearly it's been a while since you did the first time, so there's a change she's changed.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 11:12 pm on Aug. 21, 2008

Quote: from Natsy at 3:04 pm on Aug. 21, 2008

any advice would be helpful? ok then... don't try to nail jelly to the ceiling.

To busy nailing your mother =D.


oh aren't you hilarious?  

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