What do you guys think?

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you are leaving the infatuation stage and entering the real relationship.  The question you might as well ask yourself now is "could I marry this person?"  If there is any doubt, then don't waste their time. Get out of it before you both end up hurt.

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Well I'd wait until the 2 year mark before thinking about stuff like marriage. But I would start thinking am I serious about this person, do I want this to keep on going for a long time?

The infactuation spark always goes after about a year but it's not a bad thing it will teast at first how seriously you are really into each other without the sex there, if it's deep enough it's going to last and you're going to reach a maturer height of relationships that some people never get to reach. I can't wait to get there to be honest.

Post edited at 12:27 pm on Aug. 26, 2008 by lilakforte

It doesnt take a back-step into friendship and personally I dont thinit calms down after just a year!!

If anything u know each other so well by then it makes it all the more fun!

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Some people are fabulous. Get over it!

I guess I was getting scared because it feels different and due to the spark going away I thought am I getting bored with it why does this feel different? I love him. But I guess I got scared that I was possibly leading him on due to the spark being gone.

When I was younger that's why I left my 1 year and 9 month long relationship... I thought it was over, I felt tied down and had to go.

It has been quite hard going through 'is it right or not' stages, takes time and just have to decide if that person your with is the same person you want around 5-10-etc years from now.