The problem is, I know she thinks of me as like... a brother, she's even said it a few times whenever we joke about like sex or if we ended up together, etc. I had a small crush on her when she was with her ex, but that went away and led into the crush on my other friend.

The other problem is there's this guy she has a crush on, who has it really big for her. The thing about that is, her parents and his parents arranged for them to get married when they were little, and now he's coming here to see her for the first time in years. And now she's talking about them getting married. She has a choice in all of this, and in the end it's up to her, but she's making it sound like she really wants to go through with it at some point.

I really don't know what to do. I really care about her, but I know there's no way we could ever work out. Not with her thinking of me as a brother, and certainly not if she ends up with this guy. Just a minute ago on AIM she was joking with me saying, "You're soooo invited to the wedding!".

I want to tell her how I'm feeling... but I'm afraid telling her might ruin things between us, or lead to us not being friends. Plus, there's the first friend who I still have feelings for, but now she has a boyfriend who's another one of her friends.

And I have no idea what I'm going to do...

She's one of my best friends, and I'm starting to feel this way about her. She thinks of me as her big brother... Even if it weren't for the whole thing with this other guy, I know it would never happen...

I want to let her know how I'm feeling, but I don't think it's such a good idea. I'm not sure what to do.