Ive however had people who i get to rarely see and have a connection with one person i have not seen in 3 years and have strong feels for her and a while she had them back still does slightly but we both know we cant see each other. and the other girl we both liked each other for about 8 or 9 months seeing each one maybe once a month. When i was with her i always felt so happy, but now that that has fallen apart i feel like I'm useless and cant get a girl who lives close.

i don't know what my problem is i always start to get sort of close like can talk to them on-line and stuff alot then they ether don't like me or i get nervous of what the guys i hang out with will think since most of the girls i like are under their popularity standards i know it is shallow but its how i feel. so any one have some advice for me i could really use it.