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me and my current girlfriend have been having sex for 2 years and in that time i haven't been able to get her to orgasm in large part due to my extreme problem with premature ejaculation. for some reason i have never been able to last in bed, no matter what i do, i try masturbating before sex and stuff but nothing i have done has been able to keep me from finishing too soon. i'd say i normally last 20 seconds to a minute, unless its the first time, then i will normally cum within a few thrusts. I feel really bad that i cant last longer and get her to enjoy sex, but she has been so sweet about it, she doesn't mention it or complain about it like prior girlfriends have. its not like my last girlfriend who told all of her friends about it and i ended up being the butt of all of my schools jokes for my entire senior year of high school. my girlfriend being so awesome about it really makes me want to do better for her but i feel like ive tried everything and nothing works, help!
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Teenie1
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Do lots of foreplay. Me and my boyfriend have that problem, I have never had an orgasm because he lasts only about 10-15 minutes. Also go to the doctor, He/She should find ways for you to over-come this. =)
------- Live your life how you want.
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4:59 am on Aug. 22, 2008 | Joined April 2008 | 94 Days Active Join to learn more about Teenie1 England, United Kingdom | Bisexual Female | 1971 Posts | 3237 Points
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Samthemagicman
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Well... if you cant fix them problem... try and do it another way spend a lot of time with your head between her thighs?
------- *I would rather carve my anus out with a rusty spoon*
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allsmiles
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You don't need to use your penis. There are plenty of other ways to pleasure her - in fact, the majority of women don't orgasm directly due to a penis.
------- When they leave me, they're all smiles. When they leave you, they're in tears.
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BluShift
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Try an extra condom. I think theres a lube that numbs a little too. If all else fails, apparently cocaine numbs quite well
------- In a world where the broken dance on shards of glass
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senorita smirnoff
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ur best to speak to a doctor, awkward, but htere are sometimes medical reasons behind these things, so its best to see how they can help u.
------- you end up eating bread from the bag, dipped in anything runnier than bread.
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steven7
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eat pussy. if you do good, she will looove it. it may take a few times to perfect it. I always make my girl get off by eating her out first, then sexin her up and getiing her there again
------- I wish I was cool! :-(
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11:19 am on Aug. 26, 2008 | Joined June 2003 | 173 Days Active Join to learn more about steven7 Alabama, United States | Straight Male | 1093 Posts | 3080 Points
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innocenteyes
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strap on?
------- whether you fall, means nothing at all...its whether you get up.
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