But how can i try to understand someone whose 7yr's older then me, who wants a family, and who has a career, whille im still in college working on enter the proper school for my degree..... he knows im in school and he understands where im coming from. I dont want to lose him because im not @ that point to have a family quite yet. Not to mention its a distance relationship. Were not official, but soon will be.

Any suggestions. He's 27 im 20.