( hi sarah )
mixed signals, yes please! Sustainer Support Leader
you told your boyfriend about personal feelings that you've never told anyone else ever before, and he turns around and says well i think you exaggerate things and make things a competition with everyone and all this stuff, with no good comments or supportive comments, do you think that's disrespectful and unnecessary?
His argument was that that's what he thought and he has a right to share his opinions. Yeah well there is a line right? it's like i don't go around being racist even if i thought it, just because i have those opinions doesn't mean i share them Right?
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I fucking hate when people do that ALL my fucking friends come to me for fucking advice and then the ONE time I talk to them about my problems they make fun of it and shit
------- ouch it wont reach my mouth if i could do it myself i'd probably never leave the house but i can't so here's where you come in givin' it different strokes just like Arnold Drummond
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reev
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while he does have the right to his own opinion, he's your boyfriend, so he shouldn't just be blunt and disrespectful with you, he should try and sympathize and understand what you're telling him. rather than being a dick about it.
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I fucking hate when people do that ALL my fucking friends come to me for fucking advice and then the ONE time I talk to them about my problems they make fun of it and shit
I believe "friends" is the wrong word for people like that.
well if u didn't want he opinion u should have stopped him when he opened his mouth.... U could of also said These are just MY feelings and I don't care to know ur opinion on them
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( hi sarah )
mixed signals, yes please! Sustainer Support Leader
Quote: from aGIRLunknown at 9:00 pm on Aug. 23, 2008
well if u didn't want he opinion u should have stopped him when he opened his mouth.... U could of also said These are just MY feelings and I don't care to know ur opinion on them
but i wanted his opinion and support, hello he is my boyfriend? i just didnt want him to be so..
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Rebecca li
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It doesn't seem like it was very respectful, but he did have a right to voice his opinion. Espically sence you went to him. But he could have also given some advice as well. Maybe tried to downplay what you said while helping.
I donno, that's just what I think.
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Bearsy
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I don't think you do that at all.
Weren't you the one who had the incident with her cousin and was like, "Yeah, it wasn't a huge deal"
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( hi sarah )
mixed signals, yes please! Sustainer Support Leader
Weren't you the one who had the incident with her cousin and was like, "Yeah, it wasn't a huge deal"
i dont have cousins?
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LittleItaly
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disrespectful
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Kirsikka
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It's really disrespectful
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I fucking hate when people do that 
