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she's mean
Replies: 12 — Last Post Aug. 24, 2008 8:50am by nik1
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I confronted my girlfriend about always being mean to me and she said that she knows she is mean and that it isn't good. I told her it isn't fair because I treat her really well and she acknowledged that I do. I don't know what to do about it. I have been in several abusive relationships and I don't want this to be another, but I love her very much..

Post edited at 2:31 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 by wingedmisery

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Trash

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Don't be in a relationship with someone who's just like all ehh and ahh. live your life as a humin instead
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Maybe she's going through a lot.
speak.

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HuffleHaire


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Give her an ultimatum. You deserve to be treated well.

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Stand up and be a man
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Quote: from Rippzter at 2:36 pm on Aug. 23, 2008
Stand up and be a man

I'm a woman

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Pimp slap her!!!

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agerask


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dump her. you dont deserve to be treated badly. find a girl who will appreciate your niceties
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the only advice I can really give ya man is that everything happens for a reason
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nik1


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A relationship should be 50/50.  When there is an imbalance watch out.  She is  abusive, you know and she knows it.  You have told her and she continues.  It seems to me that she is intentionally disrespectful and the only way you can regain your respect in the relationship is to give her an ultimatum....stop it and regardless how much you love her you have no choice except to leave.  Start at once holding your hand up and waving it when she gets mean and tell her to stop.

If you don't you cannot bitch about her being mean.  It's a vision into the future and if you want to be miserable hang around.  A tiger never loses its stripes.

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