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Replies: 14Last Post Sep. 11, 2008 12:54am by JennyColada
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Background info:
I'm going to be a freshman in college in an ivy league
school (party school nonetheless).

I have a steady girlfriend of two years in her senior year in high school. I get sex about once or twice a week on weekends :D and it's amazing. i love her. i'm pretty sure she'll be joining me next year for college :D

From what i heard:
BUT in college, there are gonna be girls at parties who are drunk, and who would take your dick by their hand and shove it in them.
and they won't remember who they had one night stands with either due to alcohol.

I know i can get away having sex with others without her knowing, but I don't really want to cheat on my girlfriend.
Is freshman year in college really all that kinky-sex-one-night-stand stuff-expect-sex-twice-a-day stuff or do you think I have a chance with my lover?

thx


7:34 am on Aug. 23, 2008
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Stay with her, be loyal.

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been there done that. I am old enough to know that while you can get away with it it up to you and your heart to remain true to your gf. You like to party that is the downside but I also know it sucks when you party alone as well.

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dont be an asshole. stay true to her. atleast you know you wont get  an std from her and your less likely to be daddy from knowing whats goin on with her compaired to drunken coupling

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Quote: from Molfsontan at 10:36 am on Aug. 23, 2008

Stay with her, be loyal.
Agreed

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what psychotickid555 dais is true as well been through college and see a whole lot of it I wen to madison WI number one party school whoot whoot and saw a whole lot of that but I learned to keep to a certian group of friends and hang with them on the weekends as we all were cool with who we are even now so many years later.

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I've had my share of random sex at parties and let me tell you sex with someone you know and trust is so much better. So from a purely sexual sense, I say stick with your girlfriend. And unless you're loaded, in a frat on the high end of the social scale, or an athlete you're going to need some serious game to guarentee you sex like that at parties anyway.

Drunken party sex is sloppy, rushed, and definitely not kinky... its just bad. something you should only do in a very desperate situation

Post edited at 7:43 am on Aug. 23, 2008 by jennay


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Quote: from psychotickid555 at 9:39 am on Aug. 23, 2008

dont be an asshole. stay true to her. atleast you know you wont get  an std from her and your less likely to be daddy from knowing whats goin on with her compaired to drunken coupling

i don't think i could've put it any better.


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Thank you all.
I really wanted to hear that kind of response from all of you somewhere deep in my mind and heart.

:) I'll stick with my beautiful girlfriend.


3:29 pm on Aug. 23, 2008
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wow u must really love her....

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think of it this way, Sex is sex 5 seconds after you're done. Once you finish cheating on her, and you've came, all you'll have left is guilt. You wont feel awesome or excited anymore, just bad

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schoon


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im also at an ivy, Cornell to be precise, if youre Cornell 2012 private message me and i can maybe help u out but its diff from college to college

(some have sluttier girls)

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TigressaLynnMae


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There's such a thing as self control. If you don't want another girl touching you, no matter how drunk she is, don't let her touch you. If you can't grasp that, then I fail to see how you made it beyond a community college, let alone an Ivy League.

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i am a furm beleaver in not cheating. and if a girl comes onto you even if she is drunk you can get away from her and if need be find another party or just hide out untill she forgets you

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Anyone who thinks that girls in college are dropping their pants left and right seem to have not gone to college.

Yes, girls get drunk, yes girls may make stupid choices in regards to sex when drunk, but that doesn't mean that they will just be pulling off your clothes leaving your girlfriend a faint memory.

People who break up with their partners because they think they may, in theory, have an opportunity to have vast amounts of mind-blowingly amazing sex are typically the ones who I see alone at parties.

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