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Went Soft on Me
Replies: 21 — Last Post Aug. 30, 2008 8:19am by TigressaLynnMae
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My boyfriend is a virgin and last night we had sex for the first time. But he went soft and said that it "felt alright" but that he just couldn't get off. He wasn't even close to coming! Do you think it's the condom? What can we do?
12:36 pm on Aug. 22, 2008
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foreplay?

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he might have been just nervous

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No its not the condom its you...its his first so relax...everyone needs a lil bit of practice

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yes, comdoms tend to do that

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Ummm... nothing?

Post edited at 12:38 pm on Aug. 22, 2008 by xXDarkened ShAdowsXx

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i agree..he might of just been nervous

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He was probably just nervous. It happens to a lot of guys. I'd suggest a lot of foreplay before even trying to have sex.

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He was not nervous at all! He said so himself. =(
12:46 pm on Aug. 22, 2008
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Quote: from Anonymous at 8:46 pm on Aug. 22, 2008
He was not nervous at all! He said so himself. =(

Maybe not conciously. But I'm assuming you weren't a virgin - that's a lot of pressure for a guy.

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Johvanni


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Well if you know that he is a virgin and you are one....Then take that condom off and let him please you first to get you wet and let him slip right in.....Its not just...okay here spread my legs and fuck me....lol
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TigressaLynnMae


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Then take that condom off and let him please you first to get you wet and let him slip right in.....

First off, you just gave THE worse advice ANYONE ever could. Virgin or not, you don't take off the condom. You wear it.

Sometimews I wonder how some of you people end up in the College Forums, when, truthfully, you belong in the Teen Forums.

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if you're on the pill, take off the condom. Condom gives me a lot of trouble, and always has. Tends to get too slick in there and i dont get any friction and no friction = hard to keep it up.
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