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i dont know what to do with my boyfriend of 6 years. his mom dad and cousin were in a terrible car accident on the way to our high school graduation and they were hit by an 18wheeler. his cousin died instantly and his dad was brain dead when he got to the hostpital and didnt make it through the night they thought his mom would recover and even be out of the hostpital within a week. the next morning she was in a coma on life support the doctors told him it was his decision to leave her on or take her off but she would never be normal agian, he choose to take her off life support and then there was nothing anyone could do she layed in the hostpital for three weeks until her body got so week she died. he wasnt at the hostpital at the time he had gone home to take a shower and then come back iwas there when she passed away. he was extremely close to his family exspecially his mother. so i know this is an extremely hard time for him. we are living together now and so im around him all the time. but when im with him he always acts like nothing ever happened and i asked him he wanted to talk and he was like who cares. were both at the same college but have classes aat different times and i went to my class yesterday and came home earlier than he thought and i heard him crying his eyes out. but i guess he heard me come up the hall and he acted like nothing happened. then later that night we were going to go to dinner with some of his other family and when he went to take a shower i heard him crying agian. i asked him if he was alright and he was like im fine why wouldnt i be. I went to the funeral with him and i cried alot there but he didnt shed one tear why? why does he play it off like nothings wrong when im around? but then when im not cry his eyes out? i thought we were really close and he could tell me anything but i guess he doesnt think so, whats wrong with him? please help i need it. would you reccomend breaking up with him, would that help why, or why not? Post edited at 3:02 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 by Anonymous
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robdude
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leave him be, he will handle it his way
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2:52 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 | Joined: Feb. 2006 | Days Active: 596 Join to learn more about robdude Pennsylvania, United States | Male | Posts: 17,793 | Points: 31,216
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kristajoe2009
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i definitely don't think you should break up w/ him. I don't really understand why you thought you should.... just be there for him, i'm sure he's not crying around you or other ppl b/c he wants to come off as manly, not like a pussy... know what i mean? just continue to be there for him, i would want you to be there for me if i was in the same situation....
------- *~*Krista Joelle*~*
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ladybughope
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no dont break up with him. when you know that he's crying walk in and just hug him and tell him you are there for him and that he can talk to you about anything
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revolutionoflove
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don't break up with him. That won't do any good. He may feel as if he has to be strong. And he may not feel comfortable crying around anyone. Everyone is different and have different ways of showing emotions. But the worst thing that you could do at this moment is break up with him. He needs you even if he says he doesn't. He Does!!!
------- U KNOW U LOVE ME
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ErnestoTheTrippyOne
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I think I might kinda know what to do. It probably wont fix everything but it'll help. Send me a message.
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okay i spaced it out
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EarthEmpire
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Definitely don't break up with him, that's insensitive. He lost all his family and now he would lose you. Stick by him and let him know you're there and will help. Give him time to work with himself and don't invade his personal thinking space too much.
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