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Fellas help me out...
What is this guy lingo...
Replies: 13Last Post Aug. 21 7:03am by garner
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( iplayfutbol )


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I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. We never made any rules or anything. We would hang out with each other and sleep together. We see each other on a weekly basis since we are both busy with our sports teams and school and whatnot.
So after not seeing him for about 2 weeks, he contacts me and we end up seeing each other and I spend the night at his place. In the a.m. he did something VERY out of character and "cuddled" with me. I was confused but welcomed it.
Anyway, the night after, he came over at 3 a.m. (obviously a booty call) but it was all good. Two hours later, he said something WAY over my head. K here it goes "I dont want you seeing other people."
I laughed. Kinda... laughed in his face.
He wasnt laughing. He was pretty serious. So i stopped laughing. Then he adds "okay, you could see other people, like talk to them and date them but I dont want you having sex with anyone else but me."
WHAT THE HELL. Does that mean? Like, is it gonna follow a natural pattern and soon he's gonna tell me that he wants us to be exclusive or does he actually mean, dont have sex with anyone else. I dont get it. Guys, BE CLEAR. And help...

OH and please, if you're a lil high school student with no knowledge of mature relationships, don't even bother. Me and this guy are well into our university years and have our own apartments and dont deal with childishness.

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kristajoe2009


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i think he ONLY wants you, and wants you to ONLY want him.... know what i mean, or am i just confusing you more?

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acalypha


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he could either really like you or be scared to catch any STD's

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Isaias Arenas


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im real sorry to say this but i think he only wants sex outa you

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bloodhunter


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Quote: from Isaias Arenas at 4:13 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

im real sorry to say this but i think he only wants sex outa you
I'm gonna have to agree

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lilolme


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i think he wants you to ONLY b with him and he wants you to only be focused on him, an NO ONE else,, he wants you to be serious and only with HIM

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I like the way all the girls are like "oo he wants a relationship" and all the guys are all "man... he just wants sex."
Im sorry ladies, but since the guy I'm trying to figure out is.. male... I'm going to have to take the guy's opinions more seriously. Thanks guys.

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vicky91


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he might have said that he only didn't want you sleeping with other people because you laughed at him. talk to him about it and say why do you not want me to see other people, do you want to start a proper relationship? and see his response, because he hasn't said anything about him not sleeping with other people so i would double check if i were you

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lilakforte


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Quote: from kristajoe2009 at 9:12 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

i think he ONLY wants you, and wants you to ONLY want him.... know what i mean, or am i just confusing you more?

Agreed, though the he 'only' wants you part I'm not so sure..

Quote: from Isaias Arenas at 9:13 pm on Aug. 19, 2008


im real sorry to say this but i think he only wants sex outa you

Agreed. He wants you to have sex with only him but he probably still wants to be able to sleep with other girls.


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Mikebean


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maybe he don't want you to be lose or he wants a relationship outa that shit

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nik1


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In my opinion you look at things through some pretty thick lenses!
Are you all there?

Surely after being out of your childish years and well into your university years you are not as naive as you are presenting yourself.  Mature relationship?  You mean fuck'em and forget'em? Believe it or not but it is entirely possible for two people to have a strong emotional attachment and be perfectly content with being with only one person.  

Something isn't clicking in your brain!


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Sins and Demons


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Well seems like your in a mature relationship here. Anyway, he wants to fuck you and know hes the only one doing it, could be for a variety of reasons, like you staying clean or pride reasons. Does not sound like he likes you in you know a gf bf way seeing as how he doesnt mind if you date other people. He could infact like you that way if he is a shy type of person that has trouble getting to the point. Without knowing his personality its really up to you to pry and see what hes thinking, best of luck.

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Quote: from iplayfutbol at 1:16 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

I like the way all the girls are like "oo he wants a relationship" and all the guys are all "man... he just wants sex."
Im sorry ladies, but since the guy I'm trying to figure out is.. male... I'm going to have to take the guy's opinions more seriously. Thanks guys.

HAHAHA, that is pretty awesome.


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garner


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It means theyre thick. good thick... like that rediculously thick video girl Buffy the Body (look her up, guys are gaga over her)


ive figured it out. wheather guys know it or not, they like thick chicks because thier subconcious instinct is attracted to thier obvious ability to rear children.

dont worry its a good thing!!


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