Alright this girl I've been heavily flirting with/sex (NOT dating) for 2 months finally confessed tonight she has a bf. She asked me to be her BF when I confronted her about her current BF. She says "sorry...youre right. I had a bf all along. Sorry I pushed you on. I really should just be happy with what I got. I thought we were gonna break up so I flirted with you, until it got to the point where I just fell in love with you."
I told her I didnt care that she had a BF and I would still flirt with her but i cannot be her bf until shes single again. she said she would love to keep talking to me late at night.
should i keep flirting with her, or ask this other girl (i have a 2nd choice) to be my gf and show her that in order to have me shes gotta break up. wouldnt flirting w/me make her relationship healthier though, so thats bad right.