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What to do with a stalker?
Replies: 15Last Post Aug. 16, 2008 2:13am by TigressaLynnMae
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Long story short...I moved back onto campus, this semester, long forgetting this guy...'til I saw him.

He wasn't supposed to be back on campus, let alone back at the dorms.

My brain shuts down every time I see him. Because...of the way he acted. I'm not going to go into detail about it...but he creeps me out.

Quite frankly, he scares me. And humans, let alone boys/men, usually don't.

I've been tough, in every situation I've been through, but this.

He wasn't supposed to be here...

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Police.

POLICE.

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Get a restraining order on him.

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Whoa that's a little creepy get him expelled or something

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You should talk to whoever ordered his removal. See what happened, and alert them of his presence.

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Tell someone really. He could be like a psycho kidnapper or something.

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Perhaps go to the campus police and notify and inform them of the situation and how uncomforatable you feel seeing/being around him. Perhaps they can arrange something or do something about the situation.

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Police.

POLICE.


Problem is, he hasn't done anything. He's just...creepy. I can't explain it. It's like...he propositions...to no avail.


You should talk to whoever ordered his removal. See what happened, and alert them of his presence.

:S No one ordered his removal. He was just going to transfer to another school, where he could further, better, in his degree, because he wasn't feeling like he was being challenged enough, here.


Put a restraining order on him

See, again, he hasn't done anything, yet. It's just his...behavior.

He's known. The second I brought him up to my roommate, his name, that is, she knew who I was talking about.

He 'stalks', but never 'acquaints', dig?

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Quote: from alexisdanielle at 12:51 am on Aug. 16, 2008

Get a restraining order on him.

Agreed.
If its that bad.

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Perhaps go to the campus police and notify and inform them of the situation and how uncomforatable you feel seeing/being around him. Perhaps they can arrange something or do something about the situation.

A situation reported to the police has to represent a danger, or a threat, to the student(s) on campus/in the dorms. I just fear they're going to be like, "Look, it's just a guy who you turned down.".

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It's not so much he 'stalks', as creeps the bananas out of me, and my friends.

I didn't report him, last semester, to Housing, b/c he was supposed to be transfering. I'm thinking, if I get this 'feeling', again, I may just start with talking to the Housing Councellor/Aide, and let them know how I feel, and why.

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Beat the shit out of him.

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I can't say anything without knowing what he did. Just tell him to stay away from you.

If he raped you or something tell the police...

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If he raped you or something tell the police...

*sigh*

No, honey. Like I said, it was his behavior. He never acted upon it. Merely 'creeped a gal out'.

And telling him to stay away from me...it's harder than it should be. I thought by simply ignoring him, he'd get the hint. I thought by bringing my boyfriend by, when I had to return something to this guy, he'd get the hint. I'm taken. I'm not going to, with him, never. Ugh.

Men.

And, yeah, I could probably beat the shit out of him, but he'd probably be aroused by touching me, lol

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Campus police and get a restraining order.. it might scare him off.

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