Theres a girl I like. She also likes me. We both know that we like each other, and we're quite close.

Now my best friend, who is also a girl, has around a week ago confessed her love for me.

I don't know what to do. I like this girl, she's wonderful. My friend is awesome and I love her, but as a friend. I don't want to ruin our friendship if we break up, and she's too much of a good friend.

Now the girl and my friend really don't get on. I have no idea why, but they just don't get on with each other. It really makes no sense as they both have so much in common, and they're both nice people.

The closer I get to this girl the more my friend feels hurt and upset. Today I noticed how down she is. Not her normal self at all.

I have no idea what to do, can anyone help me?

Post edited at 4:12 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 by kupal vibes

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She's being selfish if she's going to throw a fit just because you'll date this girl.

You should talk to her about it. Find out how she really feels and if she'd be okay with you even talking to this other girl.

The reason why they don't get along is because they're both interested in you. Girls that are interested in a guy, usually don't like his 'girl'friends.

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Ever has it been that love knows not its own
depth until the hour of separation.

My friend isn't trying to stop us going out or anything, I just cant stand to see her upset or hurt.

If either girls get jealous, you need to talk it over with them. Jealousy is anything but a good thing.

If you do go out with your best friend, it probably wouldn't be good, because friends usually are just friends, and the relationship won't really be as strong. That is what I have seen though. There are many exceptions.

If you do go out with the girl, you need to stay close to your best friend, but try not to make them jealous.

You going out with the girl is the one that I personally think would cause the least problems and would work out the best.

I hope my advice helped you. If you have any questions, my PM box is always open.

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Leave the fire behind
Swim out past the breaker
Watch the world die

Quote: from im with stupid at 4:19 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

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If you have any questions, my PM box is always open.

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Hey, thanks man.