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Actually, that might be kind of well, hot... but then afterwards I'd probably be like you and overthink it!

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Haha, yeah. I overthink everything. It's a blessing and a curse...

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"In a world we need to share;
it's not enough to stand and stare." --Pink Floyd

Anyway, I fell asleep, and woke up to him next to me jerking it (he had thrown a porno on the TV). It was a bit odd. It didn't freak me out, it just confused me at first (since when I first woke up I wasn't sure what was going on).

I think if I hadn't known about it beforehand it might weird me out a bit. I wanted to offer to help him and all that, but I was SOOOO tired. I don't want him to feel like I don't please him or am not interested in him sexually (but I know he doesn't think that, still, the thought crosses my mind!).

Ok, I'm rambling.

In short: No, I wouldn't be freaked out by his masturbation, but I'd be confused, especially if I wasn't aware that he was horny to begin with.

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So when you're happy (Hurray!), or sad (Aw!),
Or frightened (Eeek!), or mad (Rats!)
An interjection starts a sentence right.

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The other night I was super tired. I was horny, but waaaay too tired to have sex. My boyfriend was really horny, and not so tired, so he told me he was going to go online and check some porn (so, I knew about it, so it's a bit different).

Anyway, I fell asleep, and woke up to him next to me jerking it (he had thrown a porno on the TV). It was a bit odd. It didn't freak me out, it just confused me at first (since when I first woke up I wasn't sure what was going on).

I think if I hadn't known about it beforehand it might weird me out a bit. I wanted to offer to help him and all that, but I was SOOOO tired. I don't want him to feel like I don't please him or am not interested in him sexually (but I know he doesn't think that, still, the thought crosses my mind!).

Ok, I'm rambling.

In short: No, I wouldn't be freaked out by his masturbation, but I'd be confused, especially if I wasn't aware that he was horny to begin with.

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Hmm, yeah. Confusion is a good word for what I felt. I totally understand that he masturbates, as I said before, but it was just like "WTF?!" And actually seeing it in action for the first time freaked me out. There's a difference between knowing your significant other masturbates and actually catching them doing it.

But anyway, thanks for the response...that makes me feel a little less weird about it, knowing that someone else has basically shared the same boat.

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"In a world we need to share;
it's not enough to stand and stare." --Pink Floyd

Well, as I have said before, I have decided to wait until marriage to have sex blah blah blah.  Anyways, one time I was taking my girl back home after a date.  She knew way before we even started going out about my conviction to wait until marriage.  Anyways, her parents were not home so outside her house we kissed goodbye but that kiss got a bit long.  She just jumped to my seat and reclined my seat and just started to rub herself at me and all.  It was enjoyable until I told her I had to go and that her parents could be back any minute.  She went back to her seat and just started talking about whatever.  Then she offered to give me something to drink so I accepted and once inside her house we started making out again a bit more passionately.  We ended up in the living room when I felt her hand trying to unzip my jeans.  I removed her hand and put it on my back as we kissed.  She did it like 2 times and begged me to the point of even crying, for sex.  I told her it would be best if I went back home but she pulled me back and we continued.  I felt her hand going down but guess what...it was not to unzip me or anything but to...MASTURBATE RIGHT THERE as we kissed.  

It didn't freak me out.  I mean, almost every girl and guy masturbate anyways.  I was just a bit surprised that she went at it as we kissed.

So yeah, we have lots of interesting horny girls/guys in this world   .

Post edited at 3:11 pm on Sep. 11, 2008 by Chino

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Emily,
My turn to share lol .  But this time, it involved a girl masturbating in a room where a guy was present, me.

Well, as I have said before, I have decided to wait until marriage to have sex blah blah blah.  Anyways, one time I was taking my girl back home after a date.  She knew way before we even started going out about my conviction to wait until marriage.  Anyways, her parents were not home so outside her house we kissed goodbye but that kiss got a bit long.  She just jumped to my seat and reclined my seat and just started to rub herself at me and all.  It was enjoyable until I told her I had to go and that her parents could be back any minute.  She went back to her seat and just started talking about whatever.  Then she offered to give me something to drink so I accepted and once inside her house we started making out again a bit more passionately.  We ended up in the living room when I felt her hand trying to unzip my jeans.  I removed her hand and put it on my back as we kissed.  She did it like 2 times and begged me to the point of even crying, for sex.  I told her it would be best if I went back home but she pulled me back and we continued.  I felt her hand going down but guess what...it was not to unzip me or anything but to...MASTURBATE RIGHT THERE as we kissed.  

It didn't freak me out.  I mean, almost every girl and guy masturbate anyways.  I was just a bit surprised that she went at it as we kissed.

So yeah, we have lots of interesting horny girls/guys in this world   .

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Wow, that's...interesting. That girl must've been pretty desperate to get some! Haha.

I have a friend who is gorgeous and has always gotten what she's wanted. If she wants a guy, she gets him. If she wants sex with that guy, she gets it.

However, last summer she was living with her boyfriend (now ex-boyfriend) and she encountered a problem that she had never run into before. This guy actually refused sex with her pretty frequently, and I knew that it just made her feel terrible about herself. Here she was, used to getting sex whenever she wanted. What a high self-esteem someone must have when they get anything they want, always.

Anyway, finally, one time when her bf refused sex she got so upset that she just started masturbating in bed next to him. Kind of reminds me of your story. It's a little weird, but understandable...

Lol, we could just talk about masturbation forever...

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"In a world we need to share;
it's not enough to stand and stare." --Pink Floyd

Oh yeah, we could talk about it forever haha!  But yeah, your story is something I thought about before.  Like I told you, being a virgin doesn't mean I don't date, hook up, approach a girl who I never met before, etc.  So I can imagine when I go out with one girl who is popular, sexy, etc.  Suddenly go out with a guy (me) who refuses to have sex with her.  Not only would she go home with blue ovaries and frustrated but with a damaged ego :( .  I guess it teaches them a lesson too.

Oh man, I have so many stories like this *blushing* .  I guess I'll share them later :) .