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My first time was ruined!
I am scarred
Replies: 12Last Post July 4, 2008 7:05pm by Blue Baby
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Mine was with the most popular boy in school. It wasn't because I was in love, or because I thought we'd be together forever. I did it because I wanted to see what it was like. Now I have an understanding of the specialness and etc...I wish I would have done it differently but anyway...

The suckiest part HOWEVER was, at that time my best friend had already been with 4 guys, I was getting advice and tips from her. 1st yr in high school we were. I did it, told her all about it, and one day when me and the guy were hanging out, I figured she my best friend, OK to introduce...

From then they had a secret affair. When I found out I wanted to remain friends, figured hes a dirty guy w/e, but she was a ***** about it. Called me a few months later, wanted me to come over, to make up. Turns out it was an ambush. He was there using what I told her b4 they were together against me. She and I started arguing, she pulled a knife. I whooped her ***...

now maybe 6-7yrs later. she finds me on myspace! don't ask me how, I was sure I made my self very hard to find...

writes me a letter apologizing for her treachery...says he wasn't worth it, its her fault, i was the best friend she ever had, she regrets it...gives me her number wants to start anew

mind you on her page she has a blog proffessing her love to "SED" guy ( Albeit 2yrs b4 she wrote me this letter, I checked the date)... along with other nostalgia...how should I respond to her? I dont wanna be her friend again, but is it ok if I give her a piece of my mind?

let her know that the memories of my first time are forever tainted because of her? maybe just ignore her?


8:26 pm on July 2, 2008
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dont give that bitch the time of day!

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Just ignore her.

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maybe u should tell her but not too harshly and then walk away

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Forgive. Life is too short for grudges and regrets.

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u will regret if if u leave things bad with her.... so agree to meet her ( bring weapon just in case) and tell her that u forgive her but also tell her that she hurt u to much for u guys to ever be friends again

Post edited at 8:31 pm on July 2, 2008 by Anonymous


8:30 pm on July 2, 2008
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just write back whatever or just ingore her...ignoring her migt be best

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ignore her.
she's not worth shit.

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Just tell her that she's seriously hurt you so much from that incident that you just cannot be friends again.

And ignore her from there on.

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she is a bitch just  ignore it especially since its been like 7yrs  

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Quote: from iluvkeatin at 8:28 pm on July 2, 2008

dont give that bitch the time of day!

true that, what a hoe'

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In my opinion the best thing that you can do is not to reopen the wound.  I would suggest that you just ignore her.  This alone sends a strong message to her that you don't trust her and don't want to risk ever seeing or communicating with her.

Forget about her and go back to those painful memories.  You have no obligation to her to respond.


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She really tried to find so she must be up to something. Just ignore her.

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