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Replies: 8Last Post July 6 7:29am by Duke
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( boyfinatic516 )


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now ,this has nothing to do with me.but my friend is in a verbally abusive relationship, i've gave her soo much advice i dnt know what to say anymore.im afraid that i'll turn out to get physical.even though its not my problem, what should or could i do to help her?

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Aixi


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Talk to someone like your mother if all else fails.

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She has to help herself. Harsh, but true. If you know for sure that she is in a physically abusive relationship the most you could do is tell her mom or make a police report. You could lose a friendship over it though.

Just keep on supporting her and encouraging her to help herself out of this dysfunctional relationship.


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Duke

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The first thing you have to accept is that no one can live someone else's life. It's extremely frustrating to see someone we care about throwing their lives away (in our opinion). But the bottom line is that it's her life, she has to decide what she's going to deal with. You can only give your advice, and watch it all unravel.

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Quote: from Aixi at 8:59 am on July 6, 2008

Talk to someone like your mother if all else fails.

Yeah, tell somone else that you know could help.

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There's is not much that YOU can do to help her,

In order to begin to find a solution to her problem, SHE must want to and be the one to reach out, find help or do something about it.

So, I suggest you try speaking to her about your concerns and encouraging her to seek help.

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tell her how you feel.
tell her she must do the right thing

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Only tell her that she's worth more than that (if she is) and then keep telling her that.

If she doesn't listen and gets beat up one day, you can just look at her crushed up face one day and say "I TOLD YOU SO!"

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Duke

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Quote: from Tigerhawk at 9:17 am on July 6, 2008

you can just look at her crushed up face one day and say "I TOLD YOU SO!"

A friend wouldn't do that!


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