Ok as simple as I can put it. After 3 months of going out and acting all smitten Boy tells Girl he doesn't think he can commit in relationship (Boy will be moving away somewhere 3 hours away in a few months)
Girl needing commitment breaks up with Boy
Day of break up Boy goes out to party
Day after break up around 6 am Boy calls girl's best friends and tells them to look after Girl, that Girl is special and is 'THE ONLY ONE FOR HIM' quote but 'HE IS JUST NOT READY YET'.
Day after break up around 7 am Boy texts Girl asking to meet up to 'GET SOME WORDS OFF HIS CHEST'.
Girl texts Boy to come over at 12 pm same day.
Boy tells girl 'I STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOU' and 'WHO KNOWS IN FUTURE, IF YOU'RE STILL SINGLE AND I'M STILL SINGLE' and tells girl that every other one of his g/f he's left crying and didn't care but THIS GIRL he 'WANTS TO REMAIN FRIENDS, AND IS HURTING BECAUSE HE HAS LOST HER TRUST'
Boy begs Girl to tell him how he can win back her trust and if they can become friends and what he can do. Girl agrees, but says the trust will take time.
10 days later Boys close friend approaches Girl at party, telling her it's good that they split that from his experience Long Distance relationships never work. That girls end up leaving their guys. And that if it's meant to be it's meant to be. Friend tells Girl how much Boy cried over her and was truly sad to lose her.
Boy sends Fbook message to Girl (the same day) saying 'YOU REALLY NEED SOME THERAPY FOR THIS FACEBOOK ADDICTION. :) HOPE YOU'RE WELL... IT'S BEEN A WHILE SINCE WE TALKED' Girl is still recovering from broken heart and ignores Boy's attempt to cover up, and jump straight into being best buddies again.
10 days after message Girl feels motivated and feels ready to forgive Boy and attempt friendship. Girl email boys with a good luck for the future type of message.
1 day passes no response so Girl Fbooks Boy prompting him to read it. Boy responds same day saying 'THANKS. IV CHECKED IT ....... X'
3 days later of silence, Girl Fbook messages saying... 'MAYBE WE DON'T TALK BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT ON MSN WHEN I AM. JUST A THOUGHT. AND THAT'S HOW I BREAK THE ICE :)'
Day after Boy comes on msn and Girl says 'HEY FANCY SEEING YOU ONLINE' no reply...
Girl nudges Boy on msn... still no reply...
Since then (a week) Girl has noticed Boy on msn about 3 times since and Boy has not initiated conversation with Girl and vice versa...
Ok, if you read all of that, well done!
My question is... Is Boy playing a game with girl... any reasons why he's behaving that way. Seriously I'm getting really depressed trying to figure THIS out, it's one of those things I may never get closure on...