I'm not sure if this is the correct forum to post this thread in. If not, please remove it and my apologies.
I have been friends with someone online for quite awhile and she ended up going to the hospital a few days ago because she began to experience severe suicidal thoughts. I have no idea how she is doing and/or if she is even ok. I am pretty worried about her because I feel like it is my fault she is in the hospital. Why? because I have been a jerk to her in the past and whatnot. I feel like this is all my fault and I am pretty worried about her status. What should I do to keep myself from stressing/worrying about her? Is this my fault? I really want her to be OK and I don't want any of this stress, anxiety.
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Aliboo
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You just have to trust that she will get proper care, and when she comes home you need to support her and be there for her. Shes going to need it, it will take time
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abbeyqtpi
Executive
don't feel bad. i dated a boy.. i knew him. he slit his wrists, and he went to a hospital in california. we stayed in touch. you can pull through. i have..(:
i don't talk to him anymore, he passed away november 2007.. but she'll make it through. he had more reason.. i cheated on him.. >.<
not your fault!
------- sincerely yours, never again.
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Just try being a better friend to her now then you were in the past. Apologize, and go from there. Visit her when you can, and prove to her that your friendship is truly valuable and that you care about her deeply as a person. Of course, it'll take time but if you are willing to put in the work perhaps you'll both be able to see each other in a new light.
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dEvIl 666
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hey there..its not you're falt. she did the right thing going to the hospital when she was having these thoughts, most people dont (mainly females)
i understand what you're going threw but you have to try stay strong for her and when you get back in touch with her, let her knw that you rae proud of her for getting help, but don;t talk bout it because that wont help her.
take care and look after you're self!! their is lots of people that will heip you including ME!!
------- nAwTy-ShAwTy xOx
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