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i dont get this at all.
Replies: 4Last Post July 7 9:34am by lulu06
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my dad says that people judge him based on who i am and how i act.

he says that i....
-listen to "going to hell music"- I listen to journey, aerosmith, soundgarden, queen, duran duran, genesis, etc.
-watch "going to hell movies"- i watch pretty much anything but in 2 weeks i will be old enough to get myself into R movies...i think it's ok.
-dress gothic- i wear black band tees jeans and converse. big woo
-get piercings all the time- i have two holes in both ears. i am about to get my cartilage pierced but i am sticking to the ears.

All of the above my mom supports. i live in a split home. i go to a christian school and have fairly high morals for a 16 year old.

He says that i should live how i am supposed to but what he really means is i should live how he feels i should. he calls me a liberal. im not.

He tells me im going to hell and need to go to church more often. the only thing is that i live my religion everyday not just on sundays.

apparently phil collins and sting are gonna send me to hell.

i am SICK of being told i am not good enough.

dont tell me to say "FUCK YOU".

i cant do that. outside of this he is abusive and i am scared of him so don't tell me to tell him off.

ANY OTHER IDEAS?!?!?

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Just let it roll off your shoulders.

 

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PeterNeedsHelp


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just ignore it

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Writing4lyf


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You sound fine! Your not going to hell for that, just sit down and talk to him about how his saying that makes you feel. Seriously, you sound a lot better off than most of my friends are, and your a lot older than me.

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Your father sounds highly religious, and it sounds to me as if you have a more relaxed thoughts about religion. What you listen to, watch, or wear is NOT going to send you to hell. If you are afraid he's going to hit you, then talk to someone you trust. Talk to your mom about it. Maybe you're mom can get it where your dad can only have weekend custody or something. Just remember, though. If that happens, and they know you've been abused, they may make the visit supervised so he can't do anything to you.

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