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How do you tell a girl you're not interested?
Replies: 17Last Post July 7, 2008 3:04pm by LivinMiiLyfe
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I mean she keeps calling me because she wants me to give it to her again, and I let her come over eventually and i try to just spend time with her and get some kind of a feeling from her, and i just dont feel anything, not really even lust, but i'll give it to her since she's basically begging me for it.

thing is i think its because i have my eyes set on someone else that i cant get out of my head, but i dont wanna end up really hurting this girl/    


1:46 am on July 6, 2008
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u proolly shud not fuck that chick if u dont want problems getting the other chick

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im just a sucker with no self esteem

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Well, it sounds like she's only interested in sex anyway.

Let her down gently.

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Dont give "it" to her, you are just stringing her on and going to cause her more pain in the end. If you were any decent of a human being you would tell her straight up and not string her along.

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Pretty much when you have sex with a girl, she feels that you care for her... unless you set it straight from the get-go that it's just SEX...

:Sigh: But if you're really not feeling the sex girl you should tell her before you hurt her even more. Tell her that your sights are set on someone else

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let her know that you don't wanna be in a relationship with her and that friends with benefits is as far as you can go (because that's pretty much what it is)

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Quote: from ijustdontknow at 1:48 am on July 6, 2008

Dont give "it" to her, you are just stringing her on and going to cause her more pain in the end. If you were any decent of a human being you would tell her straight up and not string her along.

i've told her i dont want a relationship or anything but i think she feels like she can change my mind or something...


1:49 am on July 6, 2008
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cut her off soon... it'll just get harder for her if u let her get closer.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 3:49 am on July 6, 2008

i've told her i dont want a relationship or anything but i think she feels like she can change my mind or something...

Yea a lot of girls are like that. They think that their sex will be good enough to change your mind about being in a REAL relationship with them...

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My advice 2 u would be 2 just flat out tell her.I mean rejection is the worst feeling and it's going 2 hurt her I'll tell u that right now that it absolutely will.But what would hurt her worst would be 4 u 2 continue 2 doing what ur doing because thats just giving her false hope when u feel nothing for her,if that makes any sense?Basically just tell her,she'll get pissed,she'll be hurt 4 a long time thats just a no brainer but telling the truth is better even though it sometimes hurts.

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Just tell her... it will hurt her more if you stab her in the back.

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just say you arent interested to her face
not email
not msn
not text message
not through other people
that is dog act

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you're going to have to reject her sooner or later, i hope you know. by not doing it now, you're not only increasing the chances that she'll be hurting more in the future, but you're also sacrificing your dignity and independence

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