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Persecuting an atheist? I thought it was a Jew thing...
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Replies: 56Last Post July 15, 2008 10:28am by Guardian
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Choice Votes Percent  
Just avoid it 11 25%
Convince her 1 2%
Some other option (please elaborate) 7 15%
A vague mix of both 10 22%
1/4 15 34%
Vote Now! 44 Votes Cast
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Today I was watching a charming episode of 'Wife Swap' with my parents (Yes, I understand that show is trash, but it's funny). This particular episode involved a right wing christian and a left wing conservative. Hi jinks ensue, grown men cry, the end.

During the ending summary, the announcer said something about a "Christian Republican and a Christian Democrat"

Then this dialogue ensues:
Me:"I think I found the problem"
Mom:"What?"
Me:"They're both Christian"
Mom:"WHAT!? I thought I raised you better than that! Do you know how that makes me feel?!"
Me:"What? I'm only a selfish atheist, why would I care?"
Mom:" I have lost all respect for you. You disgust me"(Exit stage hallway)

I may have been mean, but it was meant in jest. I honestly thought she knew I was an atheist. She thinks I'm 'confused.' I'm pretty damn sure I don't believe in God.

Should I just avoid the topic, or attempt to tell her what I believe? I would go with the latter, but she freaks out. It's not a big deal (we're not church-going) but it bugs me.

Help?
 


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Baron Samedi


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Just avoid it.  Anything else is an exercise in maddening the already pointless.

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Human Nature


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Tell her to accept your beliefs. Even though you disagree with hers, you still accept them because she's your mom and you love her, and she needs to do the same.

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TheRedreaper


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Tell her, and if she thinks that you're confused, tell her, "No, last time I checked, I don't believe in any gods. Hang on, let me check again. Erm... Nope."

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Cougar826


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don't make her go 2 hell too!! just don't convince her, lol

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carracer


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Tell her thats who you are but don't elaborate
you don't want to have an ideology battle
that could get ugly

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dark eric


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Tell her to respect your non ignorant beliefs

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carracer


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And yes discrmi9ntaion
its often a jew thing unfortunately.....
lmao

so so many groups hate my religion....

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JuggaletteBaby


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avoid it!

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Quote: from Cougar826 at 9:57 pm on July 9, 2008

don't make her go 2 hell too!! just don't convince her, lol

I wasn't going to try to convert her, and I find it disturbing a God who's message is forgiveness will condemn me to hell for questioning him.

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Shogun villimax


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Defend it as best yoyu can and we'll see who comes out on top.
[by the way,the real problem with thoes two was that they were HUMAN!
Please stop panting us with such a broad brush.

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Cruizer


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tell her that you are sorry for what you said to her, that you respect her beliefs and in return would like her to respect yours... then change the topic

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Quote: from Shogun villimax at 10:09 pm on July 9, 2008

Defend it as best yoyu can and we'll see who comes out on top.
[by the way,the real problem with thoes two was that they were HUMAN!
Please stop panting us with such a broad brush.

I know not all Christians are crzy, I was just joking with her.

I don't feel like debating her. I don't like even talking about religion.

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How interesting that only one person referred to the title of this topic.  
Are you aware of how ignorant and offensive that is?  And BTW, it is totally untrue.  Judiasm speaks strongly to how Jews should live and what they should believe, but it has no opinions or views on other people's religous practices or their views on the exostance or non-exostance of dieties (other than some things about idolatry, and even that refers mostly to what went on around the start of Judiasm).


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Clouse227


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Dont directly confront her. Shell think youre trying to bash her beliefs and will take it offensively. Try to tell her however that you are in all seriousness an atheist and are pretty sure that youre not planning to change. Also tell her that it was a joke. Try not to give out your beliefs and just say what's necessary.

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