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why is he acting like this???
Replies: 2Last Post July 10 9:03am by brickster2008
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( beachbunny08 )


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ok so i met this guy about amonth ago at the store down the street from my apt, and after he found out that i liked him i started going in there like almost every nite that he worked which he worked 3rd shift. well about 3days after he found out i liked him my friend asked him wut he thought bout me and he said i was cute as hell and he wanted to be friends but not wanting to rush into anything bc he just moved down here from boston. so the weeks went on i went down to the store every nite he was working and we would tlk and kinda flirt with each other but every time he was off work and id ask him if he wanted to hang out hed say well i want to but ive always made plans for tonight
or well i promised these people for a while now that id hang out with them but i do wanna hang out with you some time, well now a month later we still haven't hung out i came really close to going over to his house one morning but he said once he got home there were people over and there wasn't enough room which i no there was people so im not saying hes lying bout that but i dunno i just think its kinda funny how hes ALWAYS so busy. i kinda started thinking that maybe he was leading me on. but also when hes off work we dont really ever tlk unless i call him and if he sees my outside he doesn't say anything but when he goes back to work and i walk in there hes like hey whats up!

my friend thinks he doesn't say anything bc hes waiting for me to say something but i dunno. but 2weeks ago he broke his arm and was off work for 2weeks and i didn't call him at all for 2weeks just to see how he'd act once he went back to work and ever since he came back to work hes been acting alil different like more flirting he smiles more at me and the other night i stayed down there and tlked to him for like 4hours he really acts like he likes me when we tlk but he still acts kinda shady i dunno wut to do i really starting to like him im starting to get feelings for him but i dont wanna get hurt and i still dont understand why he hasn't hung out with me yet

plus there nwas this gurl i saw him with like 2 few weeks ago and when i brought her up he said that he use to like her but when she got drunk one night he didnt like the way she acted he i haven't really seen her much anymore but he was off 2days ago and i saw him and her and her friend leave in her car he says there just friends which in a way i do beleave him but i dont understand why he hangs out with her but not me i dont no wut to do im going to the store tomorow nite when hes working and i kinda think its to soon to tell him how i feel bc i dont wanna scare him off or make him think im moving to fast i mean since we haven't hung out please help me why is he acting so shady?.....and im sry its so long thanks for taking ur time to read :)


4:01 am on July 10, 2008 | Joined July 2008 | 1 Days Active
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Animal Lover2222


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Um wasn't this question already posted

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brickster2008


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I kinda was in a situation like that...he enjoys having something to do at work, which would be talking to you. Why not flirt with a cute girl when he has nothing better to do? He might like you and is too shy to make a move, he doesn't want it to get awkward and maybe doesn't want to date you because there would be the option to do something when you visit him at work, more temptations.

The way it sounds though, he isn't interested in more than you coming to work to hang out. Give him some space and see how it goes.

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