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How would you handle this?
Replies: 13 — Last Post July 6 3:23am by Psychedelic Starling
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( JordanShadows )


Quality Control Engineer 		Reply
Okay, so i was dating this guy for like 6 months and we were so close and loved each other a lot. but then he broke up with me because he was going off to college. i was crushed. i completly feel to pieces. so to keep my mind off it i just kind of threw myself into a new relationship with one of my guy friends, Michael. it was an okay relationship that lasted like 8 months but the problem was that he was like copmpletly in love with me. i never loved himin that way. i still had a like friendship type of love for him. i let in go on for so long because i didn't have the guts to hurt him by leaving him. but i would close my eyes and see my ex, Tyler. i would lay awake at night and cry because i wanted to be with Tyler. well back in december, Tyler came back into my life. He had messaged me on facebook saying that he still loved me and had made the biggest misstake of his life. well, we started talking more and more. and one weekend when he came home from college for a few days, we meet up. i ended up cheating on micheal and breaking up with him. well, micheal was really close to my family and so he showed up at my house and told my parents i was with Tyler. my dad told me to come home and that i had to break things off with Tyler and go back to Micheal. I hated it but i had to do it or there was going to be hell to pay. so then in like early Jan. Tyler i.m.s me out of no were. we start talking again. well around this time michael had started becoming really verbily (sp?) abusive and would like get in face all the time. so after about a month of secretly talking to Tyler, i finally got up the courage to leave Micheal. I talked my parents into letting me date Tyler again. now our relationship is the best its ever been. we are making plans for our future together. he plans on puposing to me after i graduate and we couldn't be happier. End of story, right? well there's still on little problem: Micheal keeps calling my family members that he was close to and like messaging my little sister on facebook saying how much he misses the family. i don't know what to do. i hate it. i think he is just trying to get back with me though my family. should i confront him about it?

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sidewalk


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confront him.
avoiding it isn't going to help anything.

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rawr41507


Wealthy Hobo 		Reply
confront him & get police involved if he keeps being stalker-ish. =/

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Stellar


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What a dick. If you don't want to be in a relationship with him, he should respect that and just drop it. Instead, he's being a whiny little bitch about it.

Just ignore him, because if you confront him, I'm betting he'll just try to put a guilt trip on you. Then again, what do I know? It might be best just to talk to him and get it over with.

Post edited at 10:34 pm on July 5, 2008 by Stellar

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( JordanShadows )


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okay, sorry about grammer/spelling mistakes. i was in a hurry.

Quote: from hound at 10:34 pm on July 5, 2008

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Taken .
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Rocker Chick

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If he keeps bothering you then get a restraining order.

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RainBowBow

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Call the police and throw his ass in jail

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nik1


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I have never heard of a family getting involved at this level.  You need to end it with Michael and I would start by emailing him about why you are no longer with him and to discontinue his tactics of getting your family involved.  Tell him it's over and the door is closed.  

Copy your family on the email and make sure he see's that they are on the copy list.

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Psychedelic Starling


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If this continues, get a restraining order.

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