Umm my girlfriend and i have been together for quite a while.
when we have sex...which is fairly often...she always tells me not to cum to 'be safe'. we are using a condom as well...i see why...but it sucks for me...
and i finger her and give her oral and she never returns the favor by giving me oral. never.
i love her to death! and i still have sex with her just to hve the bonding feeling you know? but it sucks
You know not all girls like putting male extremities into their mouth. And if it such a problem, then don't give her oral.
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umm, she might be nervous. some girls are scared they wont do it right. like, i'm scared that when me and my boyfriend can finally do stuff i wont do anything right. just talk to her about it.
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That is fucking retarded. If someone told me not to cum during sex, I'd tell them to jerk off and save me the effort.
Either she starts giving you orgasms, or you stop. It's just not fair to you.
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investigate the possibility of just being fuck buddys
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Yeah that's pretty shitty. Explain how you feel, and if she doesn't understand, refuse to make her cum and see how she likes it.
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maybe. or maybe she doesnt realize what's wrong. you have to tell her whats bothering you.
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Yeah, she's being mad selfish!!! Just refuse to give her any until you get some? Problem solved??
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She might like the feeling of receiving oral but think it's gross to give oral. I could never give a guy a bj. I think it's so gross and unsanitary.
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No what it is you should talk about it with her communication is key to a healthy relationship and if you think that you have a big gap that needs to be filled in ....
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Quote: from lingerie gurl at 9:46 am on July 6, 2008
You know not all girls like putting male extremities into their mouth. And if it such a problem, then don't give her oral.
That is such a stupid response...
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She isn't being selfish. She is just worried, which is normal...especially in younger girls. Honestly, if you love her as much as you say you do..talk to her about it.. if you are mature and in loev and having sex..and mutually agreeing that it is what you both want..you need to be completely open about the situation.
That is fucking retarded. If someone told me not to cum during sex, I'd tell them to jerk off and save me the effort.
Either she starts giving you orgasms, or you stop. It's just not fair to you.
For seriously. I always feel like shit when my boyfriend can't come (like when a parent walks in, and we have to stop).
Dude, you can come, just don't come inside of her. That's what my guy does.
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well yea if i do it myself....but it's not the same...
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