Its been months now since me and my best friend split up due to a girl. My dad said he was not like me, like he was interested in fishing and cars, and im not, so he said we never should have been friends really. I keep getting upset about him, i cry myself to sleep almost every night about it, i know he blames me for ruining our friendship but i didnt ruin it, i found out he was a complulsive liar and thats what ended it, when he realised his lies had been found out, he couldnt be bothered to be my friend any more.
I dont know why i care about him so much when he was so nasty to me at times and not much of a friend.
--I gave my friend 5 holidays, he didnt give me one.
--My mum, brother, granmother and cousan did him so many meals, no one in his family ever made me one.
--I proboably spent hundreds of dollars on meals on him easy yet he didnt spend much at all on me.
--He ruined my twenty first bday by not turning up when i arranged it all with him.
--He was always welcome to stay round mine, which he did on so many occasions. I never once slept round his.
--He at once time had the oppiortunity to invite me on holiday with him, since i gave him so many holidays etc, and he chose to invite someone else.
Im just upset about it all i care about him lots i just wish people werent so cruel i was a really good friend to him, for my bday i was even going to take him to africa with me but he didnt want to go so i chose not to go etc, i just miss him so much but thats the end of our friendship forever.
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when someone is apart of your life for that long..and you have a strong bond..such as a bestfriend bond..it isnt something you can quickly get over once they are out of your life. 
