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how do you tell someone
Replies: 14Last Post July 9 8:08am by Natsy
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that you're not interested in them if you've already had sex with them
i have some ideas but i'd like to hear some other perspectives

wow i think this might be the first time i'm asking for advice here in about 3 years

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just say no. dah its that easy, and tell them that your not intrestd and that your call the police if they harass you again.

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Tell her after you sex her again.

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if your not interested in them why did you fuck them? you just used them?? or you use to like them??

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Say it was spur of the moment and that you liked them, but its changed and you can't help how you feel.

That's what i did and it worked alright (although i didn't sleep with him)

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"Unfortunately, I am not interested in you, I was just after your body"... the key is honesty  

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Wow, I don't think this can come across nicely. So I hope you can execute it in a sufficiently assholey way.

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" I was seeking for saxual stimulation as I was confused with my feelings at the moment. I had mistakened it for emotional attachment when all I really needed was sex.."

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Quote: from FuckUnikka at 7:45 am on July 9, 2008

if your not interested in them why did you fuck them? you just used them?? or you use to like them??

1. opiates impair judgment and increase sexual arousal; bad combination
2. i was under the impression that this was a one night thing and not the start of a relationship when it happened

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I wouldn't tell a person outright that i wasn't interested in them after having slept with them as that would make me look like a total asshole and seriously make the person feel used, instead i would just say the standard line that i wasn't looking for a relationship at the moment because i just got out of one or something along those lines.

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Quote: from tell me again at 7:47 am on July 9, 2008

Wow, I don't think this can come across nicely. So I hope you can execute it in a sufficiently assholey way.

you know me
is there a way that i don't come across as an asshole?

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Quote: from Praise the Lard at 7:47 am on July 9, 2008

Quote: from FuckUnikka at 7:45 am on July 9, 2008

if your not interested in them why did you fuck them? you just used them?? or you use to like them??

1. opiates impair judgment and increase sexual arousal; bad combination  
2. i was under the impression that this was a one night thing and not the start of a relationship when it happened


1. omg opiates!
2. ohlol um um, either lie, or say something awesomely terrible


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Quote: from tell me again at 7:51 am on July 9, 2008

Quote: from Praise the Lard at 7:47 am on July 9, 2008

Quote: from FuckUnikka at 7:45 am on July 9, 2008

if your not interested in them why did you fuck them? you just used them?? or you use to like them??
 

 1. opiates impair judgment and increase sexual arousal; bad combination
 2. i was under the impression that this was a one night thing and not the start of a relationship when it happened


1. omg opiates!
2. ohlol um um, either lie, or say something awesomely terrible


yeah i don't want to be too asshole-ish (unfortunately) because i don't want there to be too many consequences.
she lives in the dorm building right next to mine and is in my social group (sort of), so it would definitely be a faux pas to be a total jerk.
she also is kind of stalking me, which creeps me out, but i can understand it. she's very immature (which is one of the reasons i don't want a relationship) and i figure she's probably just infatuated with me or something.

oh and yes, the opiates. fun stuff. i hadn't had opiates in a long time, and last weekend was a welcome return.

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Oh ok.

"I really liked you too. But.. i dunno, i just don't feel the same anymore"

"Don't take this the wrong (right) way, I get a little high on the excitement about discovering someone but then i just kinda lose where i'm going... and I lose interest"

"I dunno.. the opiates kind of had an effect on me and I didn't know what I was doing. I rushed into sex and now I feel kind of weird about having a relationship or anything. And I've lost the feeling. So, let's just leave it"

Uh, i dunno. I don't condone lying. But there aren't many variations to "sorry, i dont like you if i've had sex with you".


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"honey i think I'm gay" usually does it...

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