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Sex guilt
Replies: 55Last Post July 9 11:01pm by Erin Puff
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( Erin Puff )


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Ok, so I lost my virginity and cheated on my boyfriend at the same time. What do I do? Should I tell him, or just let it go?

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If you let it go, the guilt is gonna eat at you until you crack.

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sidewalk


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tell him.

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telll

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return2me


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tell him

buy him something, take him on a date, and EMPHASIZE that you are very sorry


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latin muscle


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lol
You cheated at the same time?

loser.


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IheartNY


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dont tell him

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andymac1


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Tell him or you will forever feel guilty.

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JuggaletteBaby


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tell

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Duke

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Wow, a double header! Way to go there, Puff! Well, at least you didin't write some trite crap like, "I cheated on my boyfriend who I love with all my heart, etc." Well, you put on your big girl panties (or in this case I guess it would be more accurate to say that you took them off) but anyway it's up to you. You can woman up, tell the truth and take the consequences of your decision, or you can not tell him and go on living a sham of a relationship. I'm guessing that you will choose door number two, and go on cheating on him.

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( Erin Puff )


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Quote: from latin muscle at 1:13 am on July 9, 2008

lol
You cheated at the same time?

loser.


I lost it to a completely different guy

moron

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kooljack1


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If I were you, I would deffinitly tell him. Guilt is deffinitly extreamly hard to deal with, especially something like that. Just sit him down, tell him what happened, and promise him that it will never happen again, and just tell him how horrible you feel and that you truly love him, then just hope for the best. Good luck

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devilindisguize


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tell him. he needs to know.

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Duke

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I like how everybody talks about how guilt is going to affect her, but nobody seems to address the idea that she claims he's her boyfriend so what about simple concepts of honesty, respect and so forth. To me, it's not about whether she's going to feel guilty (that one's debatable anyway), but about whether she owes him an obligation to do the right thing. She's already failed him in one obligation, is she prepared to fail him in yet another?

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( Erin Puff )


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Quote: from Duke at 1:30 am on July 9, 2008

I like how everybody talks about how guilt is going to affect her, but nobody seems to address the idea that she claims he's her boyfriend so what about simple concepts of honesty, respect and so forth. To me, it's not about whether she's going to feel guilty (that one's debatable anyway), but about whether she owes him an obligation to do the right thing. She's already failed him in one obligation, is she prepared to fail him in yet another?

Very well thought out, I actually like this answer the best, so far. Even if you are somewhat trashing me, I like the thought.

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